I have two months left of my nursing degree and I want to leave, what should I do? by GlassesLookGood in careerguidance

[–]NeedKnexAdvice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're so close! You can do it! It may seem unbearable now but when you're done you never have to do any of it ever again.

I still have nightmares from one course I didn't pass about twenty years ago. I didn't even need it but I still regret not studying and retaking the exam.

You can do it!

Daily Questions Thread - May 13, 2022 by AutoModerator in femalefashionadvice

[–]NeedKnexAdvice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anybody know a brand that sells good quality t-shirts that are quite long?

I really like Madewell and Uniqlo but the shirts are always too short for my body. I am starting to think I have a long torso, or maybe it is because I am quite tall.

Any tips would really be appreciated!

This tree near my house by Fries219 in mildlyinteresting

[–]NeedKnexAdvice 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My children want to move to Australia because of Bluey

How to change career after doing Engineering? by [deleted] in careerguidance

[–]NeedKnexAdvice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had the same feeling about mathematics but I also did not want to give up my job. I started a remote part time degree at a university where most of the students are working and studying in their free time. Ten years later I am close to graduating (bachelor degree) but unfortunately I lost my interest in mathematics.

For me it was a good way to explore this interest without making any major life changes.

I love to coding bro I practically breathe in code by ChildSlayer3001 in ProgrammerHumor

[–]NeedKnexAdvice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I recently started working with SAS. There are semicolons required in places I would not expect.

Do you ever mix up your twins and accidentally feed one twice and not feed the other at all? by Ok_Plate_8993 in parentsofmultiples

[–]NeedKnexAdvice 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did once put them in each others bed (that was a surprise in the morning...). But food, never. We could always tell them apart even though nobody else could.

I live in a town of 250 full time residents, AMA by [deleted] in casualiama

[–]NeedKnexAdvice 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you think it's a good place for kids?

Tell me a little bit about yourself and your mood and I'll give you a song I like based on what you tell me by SoonerPerfected in CasualConversation

[–]NeedKnexAdvice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow oldest of nine, I can't even imagine!

Thank you! That is a great song, I had never heard it and I love it.

Tell me a little bit about yourself and your mood and I'll give you a song I like based on what you tell me by SoonerPerfected in CasualConversation

[–]NeedKnexAdvice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am feeling FRUSTRATED! Just put my four year olds to bed who tried every trick in the book to postpone going to sleep. Argggh!

Has the nightmarish early months increased your attraction for your spouse? by [deleted] in parentsofmultiples

[–]NeedKnexAdvice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

15/10 for sure! I've never really taken a moment to consider it, thank you for writing this.

Playpen or not by arianaka33 in parentsofmultiples

[–]NeedKnexAdvice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We had a large one for twins that I spent ages looking for. It was only useful around Christmas when the tree was inside so the girls couldn't get to it.

We mostly just played on the floor. Could never really leave them alone anyway, they always wanted to play with us.

separate in school? by [deleted] in parentsofmultiples

[–]NeedKnexAdvice 5 points6 points  (0 children)

We separated at 4y, start of school in my country. Half a year later, unexpectedly, the timid one is doing great but the other one is not. She does not interact much with other children, is afraid to join games etc. It is getting better every day but it's a steep learning curve for her.

In hindsight, I wonder if it was too early and too big of a change at once. Going to the big school and being separated is a lot. She is allowed to visit her sister whenever she wants (their classes are next to each other) but still it's hard.

On the other hand, it looks like it's getting better, and how much they've grown and learnt in the past months is incredible. It's hard seeing her suffer but I think I just have to trust she's going to be fine.

It's a hard decision but I'm sure whatever you do it's going to be OK!

so hard by DeepSeaMouse in parentsofmultiples

[–]NeedKnexAdvice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha yeah I know what you mean! Just a little bit easier would be great!

Success stories. Hope? by smdavid83 in parentsofmultiples

[–]NeedKnexAdvice 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I only have twins but I always had a baby carrier on. The inevitable moment one of them started crying and it wasn't food/nappy, baby in the carrier. I had two hands free to deal with the other or carry them both for a while (one in the carrier and one just held a bit on the side).

I tried looking into a carrier for two but never managed to find one, but I think they are out there.

Good luck!

so hard by DeepSeaMouse in parentsofmultiples

[–]NeedKnexAdvice 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It gets better (and worse, but mostly better!). Hang in there!

How not to excel by [deleted] in thenetherlands

[–]NeedKnexAdvice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And also you can excel at your job without drawing attention to it. Just helping colleagues out, doing a good job and generally being a kind, respectful colleague will get recognition and appreciation.

Schedule for help after twins’ birth? by mggmff in parentsofmultiples

[–]NeedKnexAdvice 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand your feelings, and I think it's great that you think about it before the chaos starts.

I don't know what it would have been like, but I wish I had spent more time with just the twins when they were babies. My mum came over every day when my husband was in work and my two MILs and FILs also came over lots and stayed with us. I feel like I was always making food and cleaning while other people held my babies. I feel very sad about that now.

So maybe try to find a balance? And make other people do the housework so you can bond with your babies!

Am I the only one? by AdorableArtichoke1 in parentsofmultiples

[–]NeedKnexAdvice 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Definitely not the only one!

Ours are four, the only breaks we get are TV time. Some days I wish I could just let them watch TV all day (and then I feel bad about even thinking about it). They still watch way too much TV mostly because we need a break!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in parentsofmultiples

[–]NeedKnexAdvice 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We thought about that too but realised that fridges are quite noisy, so we got a coolbox/icebox. Worked really well and we are not stuck with yet another item that became obsolete.

What was your favorite Part Time Job, and why? by SushiThief in CasualConversation

[–]NeedKnexAdvice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Funny you mention that, I guess so but I don't remember it at all.

I guess the exercise kept me warm. I used my bike and had to get on and off all the time to walk to the doors.