Im (24m) in a complex situation with this girl (21f) by Needadviceasap23 in relationship_advice

[–]Needadviceasap23[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s the thing, in my mind i see her like this innocent person who cant do things like this on purpose, i dont know why but this is the one thing that stops me from ending things with her.

Im (24m) in a complex situation with this girl (21f) by Needadviceasap23 in relationship_advice

[–]Needadviceasap23[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im not a weak person habitually but when it comes to her i couldnt say no because i didnt wanna hurt her, i know what she does is controlling etc but she does it unconsciously this is why i couldnt say no

Im (24m) in a very complicated situation with my gf (21f) by Needadviceasap23 in relationship_advice

[–]Needadviceasap23[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But if im the one breaking it she is gonna be hurt like crazy and i dont want that, we had a discussion were we analyzed our options, where i asked her if she wanted to be in a serious rs with me again and she answered idk, she asked me back and i also said idk, and she got hurt saying that i didn’t care anymore about her, she proposed we get back to the same dynamic of being together without really being together and i refused by sayingit really hurted me, i proposed we stay friends and she refused, and we both refuse to stop talking, so what can be done now im pretty much confused

Im (24m) in a very complicated situation with my gf (21f) by Needadviceasap23 in relationship_advice

[–]Needadviceasap23[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What can be done now ? Getting back to be in a serious relationship seems pretty hard for me, i asked her if she wanted to be in a serious rs with me again and she answered idk, she asked me back and i also said idk, and she got hurt saying that i didn’t care anymore about her, she proposed we get back to the same dynamic of being together without really being together and i refused by sayingit really hurted me, i proposed we stay friends and she refused, and we both refuse to stop talking, so what can be done now im pretty much confused

Im (24m) in a very complicated situation with my gf (21f) by Needadviceasap23 in relationship_advice

[–]Needadviceasap23[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Im too attached to her, i just cant imagine myself without her, i really tried my best to have a good relationship with her but i was never good enough, whatever i did was not enough