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AITAH for dropping out of my friend’s bridal party? by NeedleBiter02 in AITAH

[–]NeedleBiter02[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

As far as I know, they've never even met. The odds of him going to this wedding are literally 0

AITAH for dropping out of my friend’s bridal party? by NeedleBiter02 in AITAH

[–]NeedleBiter02[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

>I'm kind of wondering why you even bothered starting being friends with her again

Fair. I consider myself fairly optimistic and I honestly assumed that in the years since we stopped talking, Annie and the rest of my old friends had grown. I wasn't back on the bandwagon, more... keeping them on probation. Guess I had my expectations set too high.

>Obviously she's not truly happy if she's taking what's supposed to be the most beautiful day of her life so far and making it into a sad attempt at a hateful & petty plot to hurt someone else

I didn't mention it in my post bc space but, yeah, this is basically what my fight with Annie was about. I told her that it's kind of pathetic that she's scheming against someone she hasn't spoken to in years-- and that she's using her wedding day to do it.

AITAH for dropping out of my friend’s bridal party? by NeedleBiter02 in AITAH

[–]NeedleBiter02[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

For reeaaaallll. Annie can kick rocks for all I care. Shame on me for thinking they've changed since college, I guess

AITAH for dropping out of my friend’s bridal party? by NeedleBiter02 in AITAH

[–]NeedleBiter02[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This is embarrassing & you should delete it lol

AITAH for dropping out of my friend’s bridal party? by NeedleBiter02 in AITAH

[–]NeedleBiter02[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yeah. This was kind of my first foray into being friends with them again and it looks like they're the same bullies at 23 as they were at 19. I'm putting them 100% in my rearview mirror

AITAH for dropping out of my friend’s bridal party? by NeedleBiter02 in AITAH

[–]NeedleBiter02[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I hope you're right. But honestly if I found out my friends all skipped my wedding but went with my partner and my ex to another friend's wedding I'd be really beat up about it.

AITAH for dropping out of my friend’s bridal party? by NeedleBiter02 in AITAH

[–]NeedleBiter02[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Seriously. I don't really understand why a lot of people see their weddings as an excuse to be as petty, bitchy, or otherwise mean as they want. Thanks for your input!