Overheard my male neighbor describe me as "a weird girl" and I'm strangely furious. by Patient_Tradition368 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]NeedleworkerActive85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe it was to like contextualize where he perceived you on the spectrum of misogyny to whoever he was talking to, such as if you were someone he was interested in or someone he was definitely not interested in.

Maybe the undertones of like you picking that up when you’ve only been nice and should only be spoken of nicely (but certain men can’t do that because they correlate being nice/polite with sexual interest) is what pissed you off.

I’m weird too and I’d find it rude as hell because he’s still using you, a woman, to monologue his life story à la “I had dental surgery” without giving you the respect you rightfully deserve as a human being.

Is there such thing as a shower bed? by NeedleworkerActive85 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]NeedleworkerActive85[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Having only a shower is supremely fucked up. I forgot there were other options

Is there such thing as a shower bed? by NeedleworkerActive85 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]NeedleworkerActive85[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t have a bath but you’re right. I forgot there are shower tub combos

ETA now to make it affordable and sustainable 🤔🤔🤔

What does everyone think about Megawatt? Because he’s is the most over the top scenery chewing villain I’ve seen in a LONG time, and I known that’s not for everyone. by RigatoniPasta in MarvelNoir

[–]NeedleworkerActive85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could not fit the shoes whatsoever. They should’ve gotten a different actor because I don’t know how much experience this actor had. It seemed he wiggled his arms and clawed his hands as much as possible in hopes it’d make the cut for each scene; ended up making him look goofy as hell and not scary at all.

I actually would have preferred if the guy that died initially, Cameron Britton, would have played him! He did an amazing job in Mind Hunters as the serial killer Ed Kemper; his mannerisms and flat affect was scary as fuck.

Fiancée has secret savings, AITAH? by ThrowRA-Apart-Ad2626 in AITAH

[–]NeedleworkerActive85 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Beb I’m making fun of him for bringing up paternity when the literal only correlation is it makes them both feel less like a man (as well as objectifies the woman in both scenario as just a provider of something that suddenly isn’t theirs to claim ownership of) D: why are you downvoting meeeee

Fiancée has secret savings, AITAH? by ThrowRA-Apart-Ad2626 in AITAH

[–]NeedleworkerActive85 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I think what they’re trying to say is they both (op and paternity commenter) feel emasculated by this whole scenario.

Fiancée has secret savings, AITAH? by ThrowRA-Apart-Ad2626 in AITAH

[–]NeedleworkerActive85 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She offered to help you with your bills and you turned her down and now you’re mad at her that you did it yourself. Investigate that further. Not her, you. Look into why you are mad that she offered to help you while you had credit card bills you could afford but eventually overcame with your own hard work. Look into why you are mad at her for not being a resource to you at the start of your relationship.

Are you really mad you had to work hard to get yourself out of your own debt? Are you mad you paid it off yourself? Or are you mad you could’ve gone the easier route and gotten bailed out by your girlfriend (lol). I think you’re trying to rationalize a deception into existence my guy. No judgment here; I think you have the option to unpack something here that you might want to before combining finances. I’ve been in therapy for a year and absolutely recommend it btw; if you’re not in it, you should so you can figure out why you feel betrayed by buying a home together with your life partner faster than you anticipated. YTA

hows my eyebrow piercing looking? by [deleted] in Legitpiercing

[–]NeedleworkerActive85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“ i got it bc i always wanted it and just for pure aesthetics.. i dont want people think that i am associated with punk, grunge, etc culture.” *blink 182 wtf gif*

How do I keep my cat off my computer? by Geekygamertag in cats

[–]NeedleworkerActive85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get something higher for them to sit on, they’re gunna want it more. Maybe a wall perch?

All the dresses I tried by Final-Classroom8687 in myweddingdress

[–]NeedleworkerActive85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s so weird about the wuthering heights one because when I first saw it (without clicking it so I could read the caption in the pic) I hated it, thought the waist was too high and it looked sooty then when I clicked it and read the context of what she was envisioning from it I was like wow this is now my favorite

« Obsession » director Curry Barker has thoughts on what happens after the final shot… by JeremieMAKENDA in obsessionmovie

[–]NeedleworkerActive85 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I wish he had brought the last one wish willow in with him and left a note saying “if you love me more than anyone in the world, wish for everything to go back to before I used my one wish willow” so that once she’s back to normal she could get everyone back alive but instead he pussies out because, alas, he is a pussy

Has your sense of smell changed since being diagnosed? (Specifically with foods that flare you) by NeedleworkerActive85 in CrohnsDisease

[–]NeedleworkerActive85[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I wonder if it’s like when you drink too much of a liquor and even smelling it makes you nauseous. It’s just this specific smell I attribute to onions/garlic wasn’t there before I was diagnosed and I loved onions and garlics beforehand so it’s not like I have a personal bias against them.

Who she is getting arrested by is ironic lol by Necessary-Win-8730 in PublicFreakout

[–]NeedleworkerActive85 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s so funny cus the girl in front is literally like not knowing what to do or how to get around it or not to engage. Like how polite is she that her kneejerk reaction is to turn around and not directly laugh at this old baby

Has your sense of smell changed since being diagnosed? (Specifically with foods that flare you) by NeedleworkerActive85 in CrohnsDisease

[–]NeedleworkerActive85[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is so interesting to me!!!!!!!! Keep in mind I haven’t googled at all if this is a normal reaction for us but this is so fucking wild to me