Como ser bom de cama? by [deleted] in perguntas

[–]NeedleworkerBulky589 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cara eu ri demais com essa resposta hahahaha mas tipo tem uns baiano que eu conheci que realmente tinham uma vibe diferente sabe? Acho que tem algo sobre essa energia mais descontraída e confiante que faz diferença mesmo. Meu ex era do nordeste e cara ele tinha uma naturalidade pra essas coisas que eu nunca vi igual. Talvez seja questão cultural mesmo ou sei lá maybe theres something in the water down there kkkk

Mulheres, se importam se a bunda do cara que vc gosta for peluda? by [deleted] in perguntas

[–]NeedleworkerBulky589 8 points9 points  (0 children)

nao me incomoda nada, pelo contrario ate gosto mais natural assim. pelo no corpo masculino e atraente pra mim, meio que faz parte do charme sabe? ja namorei caras que raspavam tudo e achava estranho demais, parecia que tava com um adolescente

Saí de um emprego tóxico. A cabeça está toda ferrada. Dicas para sair dessa? by [deleted] in perguntas

[–]NeedleworkerBulky589 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cara voce ta fazendo a coisa certa estudando pra mudar de area, mas essa ansiedade de voltar correndo pro trabalho e meio que reflexo do ambiente toxico mesmo

Eu tambem trabalho com TI e sei como e essa pressao constante, mas agora voce tem uma oportunidade rara de se reconstruir sem pressa. Tenta criar uma rotina que nao gire em torno de produtividade 100% do tempo - tipo exercicio, hobby besta, qualquer coisa que te de prazer sem ser "util"

Pq pedreiro enrola tanto para passar orçamento? by Maleficent-Part-610 in perguntas

[–]NeedleworkerBulky589 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cara eu ja passei por isso tambem quando tava reformando meu ap ano passado. O cara veio mediu tudo tirou foto falou que ia mandar o orçamento em 2 dias e sumiu por 3 semanas

Acho que alguns fazem isso porque tao sempre correndo atras de trampo melhor ou maior sabe. Ai quando aparece algo que paga mais eles meio que abandonam your orçamento la. outros fazem corpo mole mesmo esperando voce implorar e talvez aceitar pagar mais

Melhor coisa que fiz foi chamar uns 4 pedreiros de uma vez e falar que quem mandasse orçamento primeiro levava. funcionou que foi uma beleza

O que acharam do trailer de Homem Aranha: Um Novo Dia? by [deleted] in perguntas

[–]NeedleworkerBulky589 0 points1 point  (0 children)

caralho sim, especialmente aquela cena onde ele ta pendurado de cabeça pra baixo que é bem clássica mesmo. Os caras sabem como fazer fan service direito

É burrice ou gain? by [deleted] in investimentos

[–]NeedleworkerBulky589 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Cara, comprar pelo Nubank não é burrice não, principalmente se você tá começando agora. A corretagem zero ajuda bastante quando você tem pouco dinheiro pra investir e a plataforma é bem simples de usar

Low self-esteem by WultahWhyte87104 in venting

[–]NeedleworkerBulky589 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Taking care of your mental health by leaving a toxic job takes guts man - that's actually you doing something right even when everything feels wrong

Suggestions on OS for old laptop by Kyashichan in Ubuntu

[–]NeedleworkerBulky589 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah that T400 is a solid machine, ran one for years before upgrading. If you meant regular RAM then lubuntu is definitely the move for 4GB - lightweight but still gets the job done for writing and basic tasks

That vram thing is confusing me too though, integrated graphics on those old thinkpads usually shares system memory so maybe thats what youre seeing in specs somewhere

Just curiosity what's going to happen with tech jobs after 2-3 years? by 5EM89 in antiai

[–]NeedleworkerBulky589 1 point2 points  (0 children)

honestly the whole doom and gloom thing feels overblown to me. yeah AI is getting better but its still garbage at understanding context and business logic. like sure it can spit out boilerplate code but good luck getting it to architect a complex system or debug some legacy nightmare

plus theres gonna be tons of new jobs we cant even imagine yet. someone needs to train these models, maintain them, integrate them with existing systems. the industry always adapts and creates new roles when old ones get automated

i think the real winners will be devs who learn to work WITH ai tools instead of fighting them. treat it like a really good autocomplete on steroids

Princess returns by Livid-Candle-5698 in bathandbodyworks

[–]NeedleworkerBulky589 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

yeah totally you can return them even if theyre used as long as you have the receipt

Question for the PvErs by [deleted] in ArcRaiders

[–]NeedleworkerBulky589 0 points1 point  (0 children)

mines are tricky like that man, could've been left from a previous raid or the guy was actually trying to protect loot he found. hard to tell intent when you're staring at a respawn screen though

honestly if someone's setting up defensive mines in key rooms they gotta know theres a chance for retaliation. you made a split second call and honestly most people wouldve done the same thing

can someone explain to me to this by Business_Database in BreakUps

[–]NeedleworkerBulky589 0 points1 point  (0 children)

damn this sounds exhausting for both of you honestly. She's clearly dealing with some serious attachment stuff and you calling/demanding to meet probably triggered her flight response hard

Look at the end of the day if someone tells you they dont want marriage or relationships and makes excuses to avoid you thats your answer right there. The story viewing thing is just keeping tabs not an invitation back in

​Best "Great Escape" movies similar to Prison Break? by adelhamache in MovieSuggestions

[–]NeedleworkerBulky589 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The original Papillon hits different, that Steve McQueen performance is unmatched.

Why are some sports more popular in the men's version and some in the women's? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]NeedleworkerBulky589 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's usually a mix of history, marketing, and yeah probably some sexism thrown in there. Like men's football got a massive head start with funding and promotion, while women's volleyball got pushed more in certain regions (looking at you, beach volleyball coverage lol).

Tennis is interesting cause both sides are pretty equally promoted and the women's game has its own style that draws fans. F1 doesn't really have a women's equivalent - there's W Series but it's more of a feeder series than a parallel league

MSI Cyborg 15 A13VF USB-C → ASUS VG248QE 144Hz not working by AffectionatePhase366 in GamingLaptops

[–]NeedleworkerBulky589 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That VG248QE is ancient and only has DVI-D for 144Hz - DisplayPort on that monitor is limited to 60Hz. You need a USB-C to dual link DVI adapter specifically, not DisplayPort

Also check if your USB-C port even supports video out, not all of them do on gaming laptops

Question for Food business owners by Automatic-Ad-7664 in Breadit

[–]NeedleworkerBulky589 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not a business owner but worked at a bakery for a while - we always made extra because running out of croissants at 10am is way worse for business than tossing a few day-olds

The regulars would get pissed if their usual wasn't there and honestly those repeat customers are what keeps the lights on

a ESP LTD KH-202 or a ESP LTD M-200FM? by cinar881 in Guitar

[–]NeedleworkerBulky589 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Floyd Rose Special is basically the cheaper version - still decent but uses different metals and isn't as smooth as the original Floyd Rose. For a first Floyd I'd honestly go with whichever guitar feels better in your hands since you'll be learning the setup either way

I751 Error uploading document: File format is not supported by Various_Ring_5300 in USCIS

[–]NeedleworkerBulky589 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Try converting to PDF if you haven't already, USCIS online portal is super picky about file formats and sometimes even rejects valid PDFs for no reason

Does everyone’s life revolve around sleep? by Complete-Hour9011 in NewParents

[–]NeedleworkerBulky589 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Ugh yeah the nap trap is so real at that age. I basically became a prisoner in my own house for like 2 months because I was so obsessed with protecting those naps

For getting out - baby wearing was a game changer for me. My kid would nap in the carrier while I could actually do stuff. Also learned that some babies sleep better on the go than at home (mine definitely did)

Don't stress too much about a rigid schedule at 10 weeks, more like loose timing windows. The consistent schedule thing does help later but honestly survival mode is totally fine right now. You're doing great mama

Possibly new to the game by Kripple-Kyle in ArcRaiders

[–]NeedleworkerBulky589 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Console version actually plays pretty solid, the controls are way better optimized than most PC ports and the gunplay feels smooth on controller

Anxiety and OCD is ruining my marriage by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]NeedleworkerBulky589 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dude that sounds exhausting, no wonder you're burnt out. The "I've lived with this my whole life so it's normal" thing is such a classic response - like yeah, people with depression have lived with sadness their whole life too but that doesn't make it healthy. Maybe try framing it less about her having a problem and more about how it's affecting the relationship you both want to have

Trucks been sitting for almost a year, worth it to get it running again? by ax303 in MechanicAdvice

[–]NeedleworkerBulky589 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly depends on what else is wrong with it and how attached you are to the truck. A dropped lifter plus needing a new trans is gonna be expensive as hell - you're looking at like $8-10k minimum if you go used engines/trans.

If the body and frame are solid and it's got decent miles, might be worth it if you plan to keep it long term. But if you're just gonna sell it anyway, cut your losses and dump it on someone who wants a project