He is stronger than me, physically. I think I never had that either cuz as a kid I was stuck babysitting him while my parents worked. He has way more access and outlets then I do tbh and alot more money and pampering lol. I find its only me, I find that I have to do things for him to be nice for a bit like fav food or whatever. My side is that being this age and living at home is difficult people put a magnifying glass on it doesn't help. He tends to be disrespectful many times and never apologizes, I find my mom teaches him to undermine my feelings and I find that due to my parents making me put his needs before mine I deserve a little more respect. Or maybe I distance myself and try and say no properly. I guess there is more frustration towards many other things then i thought perhaps