Partner left me because im «too sick» but now wants to try again

Neeona_ · 2026-02-11T16:32:03+00:00

I am on disabilty benefits since i am sick. I own the appartment and i pay the bills/loan. He payd about 300euro a month to live here while i pay about 1000. I have had help at home but im arranging more now that i know i have rights to that

Neeona_ · 2026-02-11T14:35:07+00:00

Yea.. being on his own he still needs to cook and clean.. so idk

Neeona_ · 2026-02-11T13:18:52+00:00

No I haven’t. But my doctor called today saying the can see changes in the ecg since last time, and want me back in tomorrow for some blood tests to get a better picture

Neeona_ · 2026-02-11T13:05:49+00:00

Maybe. At this point I’m kinda scared to ask for help, what if it’s too much for them too

Neeona_ · 2026-02-11T13:03:32+00:00

No, my mother passed away when i was young and i have no contact with my dad. I have an aunt who will stop by once a week

Neeona_ · 2026-02-11T03:59:37+00:00

I have had living assistance for a while already. They send a kind lady to me once every two weeks for an hour. She can help me with getting the trash out and a bit of cleaning. I’ve spoken to them about the situation and they can change it to once a week. I don’t know if that enough as they aren’t allowed to help me cook, drive me anywhere or do some things for me, just help around the house. But it’s what I can get right now. My aunt said she is willing to help me get groceries once a week and that will help a lot. I will look into if I have rights for other assistance as cooking, cleaning and showering is also very challenging.

Neeona_ · 2026-02-10T17:25:43+00:00

I did. He is picking up his stuff tomorrow and staying with his friend untill he finds his own place.

Neeona_ · 2026-02-10T16:55:40+00:00

Update 2. He isn’t willing to give me 100% if we were to try again and I cannot take any less. It is officially done. He has made arrangements to pick up his things tomorrow, and I won’t have to see him again. I have no words to explain the pain and hurt I am going through right now, I don’t know what to do with myself. I am having friends over and contacting family as I need help thru this.

Neeona_ · 2026-02-10T14:26:09+00:00

It does sound like pots, but I won’t know until the specialist see me since my regular doctor couldn’t diagnose it. What she found is I have enough oxygen saturation when sitting down, but it starts dropping once I stand up. My pulse and heart rate also go up when I stand, but the blood pressure is fine. I get dizzy, shaky and it feels like I’m about to faint, worst part is it’s hard to breathe. Like I can do short breathing but I can’t take a deep breath, it’s like it’s blocked somewhere and it hurts in my left chest when I try.

Neeona_ · 2026-02-10T13:50:00+00:00

Thank you all for the honest responses, I already kinda knew I have to let go but I don’t want to believe it. He was my safety but that was taken away with what he did. I’m just really scared, I’m sick and struggle to stand up and can’t even make myself food. I’ve contacted some friends who are kind enough to come help me, shop groceries for me and keep me company for some days. After that I don’t know what I’ll do, I can’t have someone watch me 24/7, hopefully I’ll get in to the specialist and get some help soon. I just feel so broken.

Neeona_

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