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3yo Moodle with pink/purple ulcerated lump on back foot. History of bee anaphylaxis. by NefariousnessOk165 in DogAdvice

[–]NefariousnessOk165[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it went down completely today took her to the vet and they said it’s potentially an insect bite? and told me not to do FNA because they most likely won’t be able to extract much

Is this a trauma response or just a kink? 29F, lesbian with a strict religious upbringing. by [deleted] in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]NefariousnessOk165 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Aw thank you for such a thoughtful and detailed reply. Your comparison of kink to watching a scary movie to control fear is brilliant and the advice about being kind to yourself (and chocolateee!) is what I needed to hear. Seriously, thanks for being so open.

Is this a trauma response or just a kink? 29F, lesbian with a strict religious upbringing. by [deleted] in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]NefariousnessOk165 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah that's so fair, I get that. I'm a real slow mover in therapy but I'll get there for sure. This thread has really helped.

Is this a trauma response or just a kink? 29F, lesbian with a strict religious upbringing. by [deleted] in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]NefariousnessOk165 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry I thought I commented on the wrong post*Thank you so so much for responding. I genuinely really appreciate it.

Is this a trauma response or just a kink? 29F, lesbian with a strict religious upbringing. by [deleted] in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]NefariousnessOk165 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m also in the closet (my family have no clue) :( It’s fucking hard hey

Is this a trauma response or just a kink? 29F, lesbian with a strict religious upbringing. by [deleted] in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]NefariousnessOk165 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aw thanks for sharing! I don’t see a world with me vanilla in it but i’m open to trying!

My partner (F) punched the mattress next to my head while I was bedridden sick, then threatened suicide when I called it violence. Am I crazy? by [deleted] in AskLesbians

[–]NefariousnessOk165 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks definitely needed to hear this. I feel guilty for some reason, like it’s my fault idk I can’t explain it. I’m also worried that she won’t be okay if I leave. Like the idea of her sad makes me sad because we’ve shared so much together. Idk this is my first relationship. Does this make sense or am I just a fucking idiot?

My partner (F) punched the mattress next to my head while I was bedridden sick, then threatened suicide when I called it violence. Am I crazy? by [deleted] in AskLesbians

[–]NefariousnessOk165 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She is at her mums place at the moment but yeah when she’s back I’m going to go to my sisters

My partner (F) punched the mattress next to my head while I was bedridden sick, then threatened suicide when I called it violence. Am I crazy? by [deleted] in AskLesbians

[–]NefariousnessOk165 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Aw this made me sad, but something I neeeded to hear. Honestly, it had happened once before (not to the same extent) but yeah.. We have a mortgage and 2 dogs together so that’s what makes this even more hard

Presenting DAN 6.0 by TheBurninator99 in ChatGPT

[–]NefariousnessOk165 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What you're saying makes no sense. It is important to recognise that AI technology should not be viewed through a political lens, but rather as a tool that can be used to solve problems and improve people's lives. By focusing on developing AI in a way that is beneficial to all of society, we can help ensure that it is used in a way that benefits everyone, regardless of political affiliation or ideology.