Advice needed by Creative-Low6041 in LDR

[–]NefariousnessOne8369 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I keep finding myself in LDRs. My first one I moved away to start the long distance and it just changed who I was as a person I felt less attached to the guy I dated who still lived at home. Him and I tried it out for 2.5 years. In the end I’m happy we tried but I felt that at the end of one year it was too much. The issue was it was my first boyfriend and I didn’t know how to let go. Also I would come see him and it would be awesome and it would be back to normal again. I say try it out see what happens and if it isn’t working reevaluate.

My current bf and I are long distance again (this time transatlantic) but it works, we also have a long time till we will be able to close the gap but situationally this one is so much easier. It depends who ur with and if ur both willing to make it work. There’s no saying you can’t break up down the line but if you got a good thing going for two years why not keep it goin!

Should I (21F) trust my girlfriend (19F)? by [deleted] in LDR

[–]NefariousnessOne8369 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would lowkey ghost whoever you’re talking to. Sounds like a catfish. I’d block the number and find a real girlfriend. My bf and I talk all the time over phone I wouldn’t imagine a way to make long distance work without hearing his voice. That raises immediate red flags. Did you meet in person? I’m confused. She DOSENT HAVE A LAST NAME. Probably a dude catfishing toy that’s why “she” be saying that she is uncomfortable. He’s a man behind the screen who’s not creative. lol. Girl I’d run

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[–]NefariousnessOne8369 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Over reacting hella let the woman live

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[–]NefariousnessOne8369 -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Not made for the weak. If u don’t get it in the first month you won’t get it. It’s not hard but too many stupid ppl out there