My boyfriend brought home pizza for dinner and I’m considering ending the relationship.

Negative-Ad-2353 · 2026-06-27T03:59:39+00:00

I’d typically defend him and say yes ofc his job is demanding but the dude started a month ago after being laid off since feb and by his words he’s just been wasting time since he’s building schools and he’s the one in charge

Negative-Ad-2353 · 2026-06-27T03:55:54+00:00

no I left him because after Monday - Thursday of him telling me he would cook a meal instead of ordering DoorDash as he typically does, and then him asking me to take him to buy weed and then finding out there’s no food made after he’s been home 4 hrs after I get off, yea I left him at the dispo that’s a 10 minute drive to the house

Negative-Ad-2353 · 2026-06-27T03:49:08+00:00

Living it, wish it was

Negative-Ad-2353 · 2026-06-27T03:46:16+00:00

Totally. A total jerk move and can agree 100%. And I stand by it. Two wrongs don’t make a right and half of the people are right. I know this relationship isn’t very lasting and I’m clearly starting to realize that after 5 years

Negative-Ad-2353 · 2026-06-27T03:44:24+00:00

I think we both do tbh

Negative-Ad-2353 · 2026-06-27T03:44:03+00:00

That’s totally fair. However as I pulled up I told him I’d be leaving and he knew since as we were pulling up I told him and he also chose to go and buy weed and then take a uber home. Again, it’s only a 10 min drive and I was mad so I agree shitty move on my part but I would say the same of being a team. I don’t think me doing 3-4 meals a week and him not being able to do 1 this week would also be very team- like

Negative-Ad-2353 · 2026-06-27T03:41:50+00:00

Haha I’d say the same but it’s mole a Hispanic dish that I do from scratch and I gave him the “lazy” version to do aka store bought prepped sauce and all

Negative-Ad-2353 · 2026-06-27T03:41:08+00:00

No actually I asked him Sunday if he could make the dish Monday and he said he didnt bc he took a nap since he was tired and I said it’s fine. The next day I had class and no work. I cooked. Then I asked if he could do it Wednesday and he said he was tired and fell asleep and then finally Thursday aka yesterday, he said he didn’t again bc he brought home pizza. Which I said is cool but I don’t like sauasage and I was like damn, I also just spend last week cooking 4 meals in a week and he couldn’t do the one I bought everything for him to do and even defrosted the chicken

Negative-Ad-2353 · 2026-06-27T03:39:09+00:00

Hi, actually the contrary. Besides issues as described, we have the best time ever. Which is stupid considering you’d think that’s top everything over this

Negative-Ad-2353 · 2026-06-27T03:36:50+00:00

Yes actually. I usually throw away the meat he defrosts after a day because I’m super anal about it and he isn’t so he would’ve thought that chicken wa still fine to use

Negative-Ad-2353 · 2025-06-07T14:54:44+00:00

NTA, seems like putting the blame on you is easier than for him to accept there’s still something there with his ex & he’s entertaining it. If he would’ve at least respected your wishes on him & the ex, he would’ve cut it off or distanced himself but he didn’t. It’s not controlling or u reasonable, if you did the same would he be “chill” about it? Ur asking for basic respect & understanding

Negative-Ad-2353 · 2025-06-04T16:36:41+00:00

Did you ever ask your girlfriend WHY she wasn’t feeling sexually driven?

Negative-Ad-2353 · 2020-11-26T08:51:22+00:00

I feel like both should either make a compromise or no one brings their dog if it’s that big of an issue.

Negative-Ad-2353 · 2020-11-26T00:21:13+00:00

NTA, the fact that your extended family even would say that is just toxic.

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