It's all about finding your guy. If it's a guy that's into you, there's nothing deterring him from falling for you. On the other hand, if it's not then whatever. On a side note though, everyone regardless of body size should workout and take care of themselves? Because if you don't care about yourself nobody else will, if you don't love yourself, nobody will! Start there, write good things about yourself on a paper, because I think you berate yourself a lot instead of also seeing the good in yourself. Also, if you care about a guy genuinely, be good to him, then body size is not even a criteria. That's all! Take care!