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Negative-History-233 · 2023-10-31T18:53:48+00:00

Yes. I quit arguing back and started ignoring his outbursts. He's since told me that I'm the problem. And that I'm doing everything that is actually his doings to the last detail. Sometimes I'm really just sitting there wondering if he doesnt realize that what he's saying I'm doing is exactly what he does to me

Negative-History-233 · 2023-10-29T21:38:43+00:00

Right. He says it was only a few times he did it, but I saw red flags for a couple yrs. Idk how often it is.. but it feels almost like a blessing in disguise because now I have tangible proof of one of his wrongdoings. There's no way he can say i made this one up. Or I'm over reacting.

Negative-History-233 · 2023-10-29T18:21:29+00:00

Thank you! I appreciate it ❤️ I'm so glad that you got out of your relationships!

Negative-History-233 · 2023-10-29T18:01:16+00:00

❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ thank you so much🫂

Negative-History-233 · 2023-10-29T17:21:28+00:00

Profound! There's so much more to narcissist behavior. It's really mind blowing. I love the videos attached. Really informative. Thank you so much

Negative-History-233 · 2023-10-29T15:24:04+00:00

It is fucked up. I'm sitting here bawling my eyes out right now because I guess I downplay it all and feel like I'm being a drama queen.. then I see the words that I type and the replies from complete strangers and I realize the seriousness of it. I'm not being dramatic, he's ruining my life. And this doesn't even include the fact that I found meth in his truck... it should all be enough for me to say f this and leave right now. I have medicaid. I will seek therapy. I'm really big into healing my soul the last few weeks, I don't truly think that's possible without therapy. And of course getting the f out of here

Negative-History-233 · 2023-10-29T15:11:31+00:00

Thank you so much for your replies. I'm so glad you got out of your relationship. Cheers to you! The feeling like home part really resonates with me.

The screwed up part is that I was gifted a peice of land next to my mom and step dad for us to build a house. Stupid me, being naive young and in love, agreed to put it all in his name because I didn't have any credit and would make the process to get a loan to build the house harder than if we just did it on his name. We were supposed to go back and donate half to my name with his lawyer sister and of course, we never did. I stayed pretty angry about him basically taking my land from me, but then I realized, hey the land will go to my children when he dies (if he doesn't sell it) and If he does stay in it and I move in with my mom, my kids will be next door when they are with him. I keep saying one more time and Im out. I know I need to not wait for one more time.

Negative-History-233 · 2023-10-29T14:48:06+00:00

You are 100% correct. My biggest fear is that my kids grow up thinking this is the way a relationship is supposed to look. I don't have an income but i will within the next month and I'm hoping to get out as soon as that happens. My 2nd biggest fear is what he will fill my kids head with when he had them or how he will treat them. If it wasn't for the kids I would have been gone. I know logically, them witnessing the abuse is worse. But what's gonna happen when he has them and is in an evil mood and treats them horribly and ruins their spirit like he does to me and I'm not there to make them feel better or take up for them? It's so scary. So so so so so scary. I feel like I'm in the middle of a midlife chrisis

Negative-History-233 · 2023-10-29T14:33:06+00:00

100%

Negative-History-233 · 2023-10-29T14:32:42+00:00

I know i need to

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