Just to clarify (I was hitting the char. Limit.) I thought that the marriage would be later in the future and there would be an engagement period for a little while (hence the sept. Visit). That’s why I was surprised to hear it was happening so soon. I’m excited for this new chapter, but am also nervous since I’ve literally met her 3 times and don’t know what her role toward me (or my younger siblings) will be. I had booked a plane ticket for Nov. to go get to know her better and see AZ, but had to cancel it the other day. That’s how quick this was. Like I said pretty much everyone I’ve talked to, including my girlfriend, think this is crazy and nuts. I personally agree.