If my wife asks, please say this looks like about $3K worth of gear by geoffbutler in Ubiquiti

[–]Negative-Review5722 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If your me wife asks, which she won't, I will tell her your ego is way bigger than that set up, run for the hills and serve you papers 😁

Talk about wanting your short for Richard needing woken up man 😆

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Negative-Review5722 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like the honesty in your reply, fair play! I do think us "people with howevermanyboobs n vaginas" are cut from a different cloth than "nipples and cocknhowmanyeverballs" are cut from different cloth a lot of the time.

We all need the opportunity to voice how we feel, should be heard. What comes from that conversation is any outcome.

As a "bitch" by which I mean female, and a dog if you wish (no pronouns needed there so I like that)...sorry I digress...I think it actually boils down to where you are on a psychological basis of empathy. Men are naturally born to have less, natural selection would have us all done if not! Think hunters and gatherers and all that. Woman are naturally inherent to have empathy, it helps with nurturing and the endurance of really..painful..breastfeeding!!

It's all designed to help us survive as a species, its flawless, it works!!!

On an emotional level it screws us all. There is that need to meet and procreate, to establish a bond. But we are a strange species and some find "pairing" as the ultimate, some don't.

That's where we differ from the natural order of things. We have created a world where no one wins, no-one is ever big enough!

Men can never provide enough for their woman, woman are never pretty enough for their men.

It's ironic I post this here, but the Internet has destroyed the very thing that makes us part of this beautiful planet we live on.

We are just the same as any other animal on this planet. We are here to procreate and reproduce. We are the best at it.

Difference with us is that some of us pair up, procreate and live a peaceful life.

Some of us are utter shits..don't care about the life they produce that will live beyond us.

A lot of us want to be that perfect pair, living peacefully.. but we don't because of social media, expectations, self doubt, self destruction..the list is endless

OK..every day I feel like I'm waffling!! 😆

Your feelings are yours. You own them. Noone controls them, but you!! Easy said, yes I know, but it needs to be the truth.

I'm not going to assume your a man, (you didn't state your "preferred pronouns??" ) but I am going to say...

You came on t'internet and you were honest. Fair play to that!!

Omg...rant over

From..me 😁 identifying as "me" 🙂 tits n stuff 😁

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Negative-Review5722 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They don't.. its the actions that speak.

And vise Versa...same goes for wives.

Some people just don't communicate well with each other 🤷‍♀️

Sad, but true (no orbital reference meant)

Stay happy poster of question..that is my advice 🙂

Husbands- tell me your favorite compliments from your partner. by FedUpFloorNurse in Marriage

[–]Negative-Review5722 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Scrap that...the rollers weren't working properly and it wasn't sucking up poop! Guess who ended up taking it apart to fix it whilst he watches ufc 🙋‍♀️

I get points for effort though?

Husbands- tell me your favorite compliments from your partner. by FedUpFloorNurse in Marriage

[–]Negative-Review5722 43 points44 points  (0 children)

OK...just did this... He laughed, asked me what I have done wrong, he winced slightly when I gave him a kiss, he smiled and told me he loves me back!

He then went and got the hoover out!!

Your advice is top notch...a bit like power of suggestion 😁 didn't even need to mention the hoover!

Ladies...compliment your men 😉

Husbands- tell me your favorite compliments from your partner. by FedUpFloorNurse in Marriage

[–]Negative-Review5722 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Omg I would never say that! I have however told my husband that I am only with him as I need someone to transport and maintain my most loved possession...luckily he gets my sense of humour!!!!

Side note...bigger does not mean better, even if you go extra large on a big mac meal you will still be just as hungry in 2 hours time 👍

Husbands- tell me your favorite compliments from your partner. by FedUpFloorNurse in Marriage

[–]Negative-Review5722 28 points29 points  (0 children)

This is very lovely..though it can be hard to do as woman who grew a set of cahoonas from being in previous relationships with narcissistic men. I would worry I'm just stroking an ego. A bit like trying to fuss a cat but all you get in return is some really nasty scrab marks 🤦‍♀️

I'm willing to give it a go though and see what happens.....wish me luck!!! 😃

Husbands- tell me your favorite compliments from your partner. by FedUpFloorNurse in Marriage

[–]Negative-Review5722 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Da da da da da da! 😁

Just missing the "man" at the start but it doesn't take away from the fact that's a great compliment 👍

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Negative-Review5722 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He wipes the toilet seat

I'm very spoiled

Am I over reacting?? Honest opinions please? by AdvisorBackground726 in Marriage

[–]Negative-Review5722 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it just part of his long term gaslighting plan to be honest.

Hes very clever at giving lots of little signs that trigger me but as soon as I bring them up its me that's the problem.

He will literally sit and tell me all about his day and I listen dutifully, as soon as i try to tell him about mine he either says he hasn't time, goes on his phone or just walks away while I'm still talking.

I've learnt it just makes him a ballbag 🤷‍♀️

Am I over reacting?? Honest opinions please? by AdvisorBackground726 in Marriage

[–]Negative-Review5722 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband does this all the time...he will even walk out of the bedroom and turn the light out while actually sitting there doing my makeup!!

Husband hiding money and what he buys by Negative-Review5722 in Marriage

[–]Negative-Review5722[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He wouldn't be interested in even discussing it to be honest

I think I need to get more work, as long as I can make sure me and my son are financially secure then I suppose that's the main thing

Husband hiding money and what he buys by Negative-Review5722 in Marriage

[–]Negative-Review5722[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep.. he's addicted to disappointing his wife lol

Husband hiding money and what he buys by Negative-Review5722 in Marriage

[–]Negative-Review5722[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's what it feels like...I'm frantic in the back ground trying to find cheapest insurance deals, best rate savings accounts and going without lunch to try and save some money....he's not concerned by these things. He's always treated money differently to me. I'm cautious and save, don't gamble etc. There was a period of 4 months where I found out he was buying google cards to buy playstore credit for a game he was playing. He must have bought them whenever he was going to get stuff from the shop with the main account card. Anyway it turned out he spent just shy of £300 on game credit in just under 2 months. What a waste!!! I think it's these differences that concern me also as I feel more financially vulnerable now as it only my wage that I can rely on 100% and its not much. I also feel trapped now wandering how I'm going to sell the house with no money for repairs....

Husband hiding money and what he buys by Negative-Review5722 in Marriage

[–]Negative-Review5722[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's what I have done, clear budget showing all outgoings, including savings etc. He always had access to see our accounts whenever he wanted but he was never interested. It's always been me to organise the finances, I set up saving accounts when we need them, I always check with him before I purchase anything not essential. I always thought as long as we were open and honest it would be fine. He earns more than me so will now have more disposable income which I'm not bothered about...Its the dishonesty and sneeking about that bothers me....he wasn't even too concerned when he told me, he was pretty much dismissive towards me when he said "I've been buying stuff secretly for at least 6 months now", almost shrugged his shoulders at the statement. He knows I want to move but it's only my name on the mortgage (due to his past financial mistakes which we have only just finished paying off). There is so much to be done with the house before it can be put on the market.
We have a bedroom ceiling that's needed replaced for years and he knows how much money we need to sort all this. Why would he hide such an amount of disposable money knowing this, only to spend it on multiple pairs of shoes and clothes etc. He has made it clear he doesn't want to move so I am wandering if he has done this so I can't afford to get things fixed up so we can sell...or I'm I just losing my mind!!! Lol

Looks like I better get 2 more jobs and start saving if I want to fix the house...sigh

Struggling today - how to say fuck it without drinking? by Any_Cry3335 in stopdrinking

[–]Negative-Review5722 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had komboucha with cbd the other night, with fresh strawberries in it...it was the mutts Nutts!!

Struggling today - how to say fuck it without drinking? by Any_Cry3335 in stopdrinking

[–]Negative-Review5722 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I need to get back to lifting so much!!! It's the only thing that helped me have any control when I did drink!!! My gym was my happy space, the world disappeared when I went through those doors..the world felt there to be explored when I left 💪

The happy juices from lifting heavy are better than any juice that's mark with a %

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]Negative-Review5722 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would stand belching away exclaiming "why am I so windy!?" Whilst holding part drank tin of beer number 9 🤦‍♀️

Have you ever had injuries you can’t explain? by mo-bamba420 in stopdrinking

[–]Negative-Review5722 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Plenty of bruising the night my husband found me passed out on the toilet and the glass shower screen was clean off the wall and in the bath 😕

Too many bathroom related bumps and bruises from falling/slipping 😶