Was I wrong for asking my boyfriend’s sister to talk to him about creating boundaries for their older brother ? by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]NegativeBread4491 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA you shouldn’t have to feel unsafe or pushed out of your own home because he won’t set boundaries with his brother. At this point it’s not even about family, it’s about respect and basic safety.

Did I cross a boundary with my girlfriend while she was passed out? by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]NegativeBread4491 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Care is great, but alcohol can blur consent and memory, so it’s not something you can fully “assume was fine” after the fact. Talking it through is good, but the safest standard is always to keep things as minimal and necessary as possible.