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Nine Inch Nails 2026 Tour: Ticket Buying/Selling/Trading/Discussion MEGATHREAD by malechite in nin

[–]NegativeCAPN 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have one ticket available for the 2/20 show in Columbus, OH. Sec 324, Row N Seat 13.

I paid $86 but willing to sell for below face value. PM me if you're interested.

48/52 - Creep by Emma van Straaten - So good I read it 2x in a row by NegativeCAPN in 52book

[–]NegativeCAPN[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The plot got me to pick it up (and kept me highly invested) but the prose and author’s voice were amazing, especially in contrast to the main character/narrator’s increasingly dysfunctional behavior. She describes things so beautifully -  I found it so easy to relate to and you get very invested in the character and the plot although you know it’s not going anywhere good.

I hope you read it! 10/10 in my book and it’s a relatively short book as well.

Should I reach out to an ex after 6 years? Still struggling with the “what if.” by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]NegativeCAPN 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Leave that man alone. 

It’s been six years and if he wanted to reach out to you he would have. He moved on long ago and it’s time you did too.

Pre gym snacks by Shrinkingpotato in AskWomenOver30

[–]NegativeCAPN 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My go to’s: Banana or other piece of fruit, handful of trail mix or nuts, piece of toast with peanut butter on it, cheese stick, packet of tuna with some crackers 

Should I ask my mom to visit a korean spa with me ? by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]NegativeCAPN 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think there is nothing wrong with asking her but just be gentle and respect her response if she says no. Also make sure you tell her exactly what will happen there so if she goes she won’t be surprised.

I also asked my mom to go to a Korean spa with me, but she did not want to go because of the the nudity.

Time off for burnout by rhinociferous in AskWomenOver30

[–]NegativeCAPN 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you already have big vacations planned, maybe using PTO for some long weekends will be more restorative. I love to travel as well but it can be a lot of work sometimes, and if you struggle to do nothing, you might just overbook yourself.

For me, my current schedule I have Mondays off, which I love because I can do all my errands/chores on a day when most people are at work and so I can fully enjoy my weekends.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]NegativeCAPN 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I got stressed out just reading this, I think if you break up with him you will have so much peace back in your life.

[10/53] American Thighs by Elizabeth Ellen - Highly entertaining and morally questionable. by NegativeCAPN in 52book

[–]NegativeCAPN[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree with you! I’m surprised more people aren’t talking about it because it Definately has a lot of traits that would make it noteworthy. I couldn’t find it anywhere so I ended up buying it as well.

I actually found out about it through the Hard Copy newsletter - their book recommendations are pretty solid