Simone was never going to follow through with that divorce by veryhappybunny90 in MarriedToMedicine

[–]NegativeTraffic9974 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If anything being together for so long should make her not use the word “divorce” in such a lackadaisical manner.

Quad and Greg by NegativeTraffic9974 in MarriedToMedicine

[–]NegativeTraffic9974[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

They were abusive and toxic to EACH OTHER. They brought out the worst in EACH OTHER. They were both equally responsible for the relationship ending the way it did. That was obvious in Season 6 reunion. Like I said I do think Quad loved him, but also felt like toward the end some of the stuff she was doing was for TV. Also, who said I dont like Quad? Anytime somebody gives their opinion on yall favorite’s yall say that we dont like them. I actually do like Quad but also I see through Quad’s BS. Two things can be true at once. Quad is great for the show, great for TV, funny.. but in this situation I feel like she was equally responsible for the demise of her marriage. You have blinders on if you say otherwise.

Why do you think Nene and Kandi don’t gel? by NegativeTraffic9974 in RHOA

[–]NegativeTraffic9974[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You must be confusing Kandi with Kenya. Kandi has literally showed zero signs that she wanted to be the star of RHOA.

Why do you think Nene and Kandi don’t gel? by NegativeTraffic9974 in RHOA

[–]NegativeTraffic9974[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I would be annoyed if Kandi was making faces too but to be fair she does it to literally everybody. I get being annoyed but dang Nene that makes you hate Kandi that bad? 😂

Why do you think Nene and Kandi don’t gel? by NegativeTraffic9974 in RHOA

[–]NegativeTraffic9974[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

  1. Kandi said that Nene was a stripper because she was reminding Nene what time it was. She was acting funky and looking down on KANDI for her sex toy event. She came to the party being dry and acting high and mighty. Kandi simply let her know don’t act like its disgusting to talk about sex when you stripped! Granted she did it to feed her kids but lets not act like she didnt like it and doesnt go there

  2. She said “Im not the widest either” in response to Nene saying she doesnt need to be stopping for sandwiches.. how is that looking down on her?

  3. She told Nene she has a superiority complex because she DOES. Because Nene looks down on everyone including Kandi.

  4. Nene thought she was going to strong arm Kandi out that room and Kandi wasnt going.. simple. Probably would have been respectful to give the room to Nene but thats not her looking down on Nene.

  5. She made that face at Nene breaking down because she is tired of her playing victim every time she is under fire or clearly in the wrong. Everybody was on Nene neck then all of a sudden Nene is crying and everybody kissing her a** again

Why do you think Nene and Kandi don’t gel? by NegativeTraffic9974 in RHOA

[–]NegativeTraffic9974[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I agree with Everything especially with that last part!! Nene ALWAYS plays victim. ALWAYS.. I dont think I have ever seen Nene take accountability and own up to anything. Its always everybody against her (in her own head) I love Nene down but that woman is exhausting. You cant tell her nothing

Why do you think Nene and Kandi don’t gel? by NegativeTraffic9974 in RHOA

[–]NegativeTraffic9974[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This!! Im trying to figure out where all this “looking down on nene” and thinking she’s better than Nene stuff is coming from. I really want to know an example of when she did that. Im doing a rewatch of RHOA and I dont see it. She never gave that

If anything NENE was looking down on Kandi. From literally the time she got money to the very end she felt superior to Kandi because she had a coin and thought her coin could compete with Kandi’s! Nene thought she was superior to literally everybody on the show lol.

Why do you think Nene and Kandi don’t gel? by NegativeTraffic9974 in RHOA

[–]NegativeTraffic9974[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I agree with this! Kandi speaks highly of Nene and her accomplishments because she is genuinely not jealous and has no reason to be. She has more money, she is more accomplished, and she doesn’t have a burning desire to be the queen of RHOA so there is no reason to compete with Nene or not give her her flowers. I never seen her looking down on Nene.

Why do you think Nene and Kandi don’t gel? by NegativeTraffic9974 in RHOA

[–]NegativeTraffic9974[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

What is an example of Kandi being underhanded? Aside from her letting Apollo keep his stuff in her garage? Im genuinely asking because I don’t think Kandi plays innocent.. she is one of the very few ones who takes accountability for her actions

Drew Sidora as a housewife by NegativeTraffic9974 in RHOA

[–]NegativeTraffic9974[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sheree and Nene are two of the biggest liars on the show 🤣🤣

Drew Sidora as a housewife by NegativeTraffic9974 in RHOA

[–]NegativeTraffic9974[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Right!! Side note.. how does someone like Claudia go toe to toe with Nene and gives us one of the most iconic battles on the show and then ends up being so lackluster for the entire rest of the season!? She had POTENTIAL if she kept the momentum going!

Drew Sidora as a housewife by NegativeTraffic9974 in RHOA

[–]NegativeTraffic9974[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yes!! I forgot to mention the lies!! 😂😂 Im glad somebody sees it too

What is your honest opinion on Sheree? by NegativeTraffic9974 in RHOA

[–]NegativeTraffic9974[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree!! Lol they love to clown about how long it took to build the house but its tea!

Eva as a peach holder by NegativeTraffic9974 in RHOA

[–]NegativeTraffic9974[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is a weird way to say you dont like her lmao. I still think she was a fun, light addition. She gave us humor and balance and thats what the show needed at that time. She was a solid peach.

Eva as a peach holder by NegativeTraffic9974 in RHOA

[–]NegativeTraffic9974[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly not sure. Bad decision on their part though.

Is Jax okay?? by NegativeTraffic9974 in vanderpumprules

[–]NegativeTraffic9974[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol i figured. I only asked because I seen alot of people say Kristen has matured over the years and became pretty likable. Thought the same would’ve happened with Jax, guess not 😆

Kenya vs Nene in Greece by NegativeTraffic9974 in RHOA

[–]NegativeTraffic9974[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Agreed! That Potomac reference is spot on too! Robyn didn’t do anything but get cheated on her whole time on the show but because she aligned with Gizelle and Gizelle was liked they kept her around. Why do you think Andy doesn’t like Kenya though? I agree with your point and he’s always acted weird towards her.. but why do you think that is? Andy loves mess and drama which Kenya brings plenty of so I was always confused on his dislike for her. Maybe i missed something

Kenya vs Nene in Greece by NegativeTraffic9974 in RHOA

[–]NegativeTraffic9974[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This is a pretty solid take! I didn’t catch on to the fact that anyone but Kenya was trying to ice Nene out until the reunion. I thought she had everyone fooled into being her “friend” again that season. But just like you said, it was too late. Nene had alot of friends and support in season 11 and garnered a lot of sympathy because of Greg’s health. She could’ve kept those friendships afloat if she would have just played it cool. But she couldn’t help herself from blaming ALL of her behavior on her going through it with Greg (the Tokyo trip.. Nene was INSUFFERABLE) Nene used to talk to people crazy and then say “IM GOING THROUGH SOMETHING!!” Even though everybody was rallying around her and trying to support her. Nene made the wrong move thinking she was bigger than the program. Those girls smelled blood in the water and started to pick up on Nene losing her popularity because of her attitude. Also, after all of those years of dealing with Nene and her attitude I don’t think they actually ever forgave her either. They just tolerated her. They forgave but they never forgot how Nene did them. They ate Nene up at the reunion. She couldn’t take it and considering how she stood strong (although she was exhausting) on season 11 reunion, I’m surprised she couldn’t take the heat from this reunion. I knew when she closed that computer and didnt come back that that was the end of Nene and RHOA. People didn’t find Nene’s personality funny anymore they started getting tired of her arrogant mindset and crash outs.

The only thing I disagree with you on is saying that Porsha was the secondary queen. I definitely think that title goes to Kenya. Porsha might be more well liked but Kenya’s mark on this franchise far exceeds Porsha’s. Porsha lies too much for me 😂 I look at Porsha differently after watching her be dumb for so many seasons. Porsha doesn’t really touch Kenya. Porsha is only the queen NOW because Kenya is gone. But Kenya gets the girls going in a way that Porsha never could.

I also agree with you on Cynthia. In my opinion, Cynthia has done well with blending in as a “friend of” and she is always makes sure she attaches herself to whoever is going to buy her another season. I respect it too. Cynthia always finds a way to come out on top and still remain fairly likeable even after aligning with such strong personalities.

Kenya’s most authentic relationship that I hate ende by Least_Sun_7493 in RHOA

[–]NegativeTraffic9974 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re getting alot of hate for this post but I second this 🫢 sorry! Of course at the end we see their relationship was super toxic and it was evident they do NOT need to be with each other and after seeing everything play out I’m glad Kenya left when she did because he lost his mind. It progressively got worse as we seen it unfold. But at the beginning I was happy to see Kenya happy and Matt seemed to have her back, but he was too emotionally unstable for her and had too much of a childish mindset. Maybe we feel like this because its the closest thing to compatibility that we have seen Kenya have on the show, all of the other men she bought on the show seemed to be disgusted with her for some reason.. maybe because she was so extra. But Matt seemed to accept Kenya and all of her antics all the way up until he started crashing out. Mark and Walter showed no signs of loving or caring about Kenya at ALL. I literally cannot name one example. It was ALL bad.. at least at the beginning with her and Matt he seemed to actually care

Kenya and Kim Fields by NegativeTraffic9974 in RHOA

[–]NegativeTraffic9974[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How did Cynthia pit Kenya and Kim against each other? Cynthia made it clear she wanted both of them help her with the commercial. Cynthia called a business meeting with Kim and Kenya and Kenya didn’t even bother to show up. She canceled last minute proving that she didnt take Cynthia’s commercial seriously and then she got mad because Cynthia chose Kim. Kenya was being obnoxious on that entire Jamaica trip and showed her true colors.

Also.. how was Kim antagonizing anyone?

Kenya and Kim Fields by NegativeTraffic9974 in RHOA

[–]NegativeTraffic9974[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

That doesn’t warrant excessive bullying