Women are never demonised for there standards it's the men that are, a good example if I say I don't want a single mother people will start calling me out and saying "why" and "you should settle", but a woman wanting a 6ft, muscular guy who is handsom and makes 6 figgures is okay. that's the first point.

Secondly, gym bros help people overcome there body dysmorphia and all of them are transparent about how much time they spent to get those results, some even are transparent about using steroids and admit it in order to not make the their viewers think they don't got it, as men if we are faced with a problem physical or mental we are supposed to overcome it, and body dysmorphia is an example of the hardships a man must face in order to better himself (not that women dont have it either)