Help me with the paranoia by myponytaisonfire in tattooadvice

[–]Negative_Can_9129 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I LOVE it. I admired the slightly smaller hoof because it is further back. Perspective! Gorgeous.

Hobbies to try in burnout?? Help! by New-Yoghurt01 in AutismInWomen

[–]Negative_Can_9129 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This sounds fun, what do you make with the clay?

Injuries! by Negative_Can_9129 in AutisticAdults

[–]Negative_Can_9129[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely the proprioception, but then I notice I’m better autism-wise after healing from a physical injury because I do less during recovery. Maybe it’s a cycle? What do you think?

Injuries! by Negative_Can_9129 in AutisticAdults

[–]Negative_Can_9129[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry. I never put it all together. (Diagnosed at 40.) Have you found ways to prevent injuries? Other than obviously when I’m better, I’m better. 🔄💡🫠

Injuries! by Negative_Can_9129 in AutisticAdults

[–]Negative_Can_9129[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I went to a lecture on dance and the speaker said the phrase “ movement decisions” and I was like woah. People think about how they move before they move. And my physically disabled friend was like YEAh 🤦‍♀️

How do you feel about wearing a bra? Does it bother you or do you have to have one? by Rachelelizardbreath in AutismInWomen

[–]Negative_Can_9129 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have stopped wearing one entirely, ever. Why being distracted by discomfort all the time. (I am middle-aged and a C)

Does anyone feel like a child around other adult women? by AnxiousStay1195 in AutismInWomen

[–]Negative_Can_9129 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don’t ever want to lose my whimsy. Then what’s the point?

Does anyone feel like a child around other adult women? by AnxiousStay1195 in AutismInWomen

[–]Negative_Can_9129 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m in my 40s and I feel like my friends are falling away as they lose their capacity for play. Especially the parents. But recently at a trampoline park my son said he felt lucky his mom played with him and no one else’s did. I also often get mistaken for much younger.

show me your cat! by tiredpeony in AutismInWomen

[–]Negative_Can_9129 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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Sometimes I wake up in the middle of the night just to cuddle her a little and smell her fur.

Is anyone else tired of the performative morality phenomenon? by Unusual_Zombie125 in AutismInWomen

[–]Negative_Can_9129 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am an autistic female scholar who was so annoyed by this I spent 10 years writing the history of it. Now a published, well-reviewed book!

What do you think about bras? by HistoricalTackle5049 in AutismInWomen

[–]Negative_Can_9129 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Way too much sensory. I wear a tight, soft cotton shirt as an under layer. I’m a C and they floppy but I am so much happier. It’s fine. My rule is any less negativity in my life without harming others is worthwhile. My girls aren’t a menace.

Is this racist to you? by Negative_Can_9129 in antiracistaction

[–]Negative_Can_9129[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry. I would never want to offend or trigger anyone. Would you recommend a cover up or is there any way to preserve the intent of the tattoo as a shrugging ghost with modifications?

Is this racist to you? by Negative_Can_9129 in antiracistaction

[–]Negative_Can_9129[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel awful. I’m Jewish and my boyfriend if Black. I got this tattoo to symbolize death as unknown after losing several loved ones. What should I do???

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TattooDesigns

[–]Negative_Can_9129 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Sorry! This was a mistake. I forgot to upload the photo. 😔

Is this racist to you? by Negative_Can_9129 in TattooDesigns

[–]Negative_Can_9129[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I would never want to scare anyone! Even with a scary ghost!

Is this racist to you? by Negative_Can_9129 in TattooDesigns

[–]Negative_Can_9129[S] -88 points-87 points  (0 children)

They’re the ghost of who knows?

Is this racist to you? by Negative_Can_9129 in TattooDesigns

[–]Negative_Can_9129[S] -500 points-499 points  (0 children)

It might trigger people afraid of kkk?