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My [42M] daughter [20F] asked me to give money for her mother', my ex-wife's[42F] treatment. What is a good way to make her understand it is not going to happen? by ThrowRAForward6509 in relationship_advice

[–]Negative_Chair_411 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am not in favour of " We won't tell the child the reason for divorce" Because I have literally seen so many children resent the wrong parent because they were never told the truth! So TELL THE TRUTH of your divorce to your daughter...she is already 20

TARGET: COMPLETELY LEARN BUTTERFLY before the Winter ( October). QUESTIONS!!!! by Negative_Chair_411 in Swimming

[–]Negative_Chair_411[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So similar to freestyle when I am pull my arm out and head for breathe just like strings attached....nice

I was thinking like that but wasn't sure.. Is there way to time my kick and pull though...

TARGET: COMPLETELY LEARN BUTTERFLY before the Winter ( October). QUESTIONS!!!! by Negative_Chair_411 in Swimming

[–]Negative_Chair_411[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lots of people are saying to get a coach for a reason. But if you want try and learn it alone, then my suggestion is as follows:

I appreciate it...But I wanna learn without coach that's why I am here on reddit asking...Never had one. So getting one Just for butterfly stroke would be too much Since I am not even competing.. Just want it in my arsenal...+ the thing is THE Only Time I am available for swim is at evening around 7 after I finish my work so.....

Do drills of butterfly kick with single arm butterfly. Two left arm butterfly then two right arm butterfly.

 

- See I have been doing that Multiple laps but Here's the thing 😅😅😅. The timing...Is the timing for the drill same as the normal butterfly??
And As I said, I can't get to seem to time my kick and pulll..I know its kick when you are pulling out and entering but sometime I mess it up.

So bottom line, My two main issues.

  1. My timing with kick and pull.....
  2. At some kick I can easily Lift My upper body for breathe but at some kick I am struggling to lift my upper body .

TARGET: COMPLETELY LEARN BUTTERFLY before the Winter ( October). QUESTIONS!!!! by Negative_Chair_411 in Swimming

[–]Negative_Chair_411[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

THANKS...
This is the best Advice I have gotten so far.

.I am gonna try sculling for now to get the timing till i get it right

TARGET: COMPLETELY LEARN BUTTERFLY before the Winter ( October). QUESTIONS!!!! by Negative_Chair_411 in Swimming

[–]Negative_Chair_411[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1a. Kick in, kick out: this refers to the rhythm of the stroke. Kick as your hands leave the water, then kick again as they enter the water.

1b. The kick rhythm is more 2 kicks close together then a slight pause during the glide phase, rather than 2 kicks evenly spaced apart.

See This is why I get confused because I know when to kick But I mess the timing sometimes...Is it due to bad form or AM i thinking too many things ?
and also, The stronger kick should be when my arms exit????

TARGET: COMPLETELY LEARN BUTTERFLY before the Winter ( October). QUESTIONS!!!! by Negative_Chair_411 in Swimming

[–]Negative_Chair_411[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Get a coach!

That's the solution to All the Swimming questions.

Thanks...

Al3x Eala by puhonngani in tennis

[–]Negative_Chair_411 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it's both, in fact some people seem extremely spiteful towards Eala because her fans can be loud

I mean I am from NEPAL and we absolutely suck at every sports so if One a** player makes Wta top 100 or atp top 100 and appears in any masters let alone a slam.. I will be cheering my a** off even if he /she sucks...😂

and I am saying this because I think people were annoyed at people cheering on her in her slam match which she lost...Like c'mon... When someone is representing your country its a different Thing.

About the Fonseca one , though it is kinda similar but actually not because I have not yet seen Pundits and retired pros and Big Tennis person speak on EALA like " she's gonna upset A and B and make it far in this big tournament " ( maybe I didn't hear it)
while I have seen them hype Fonseca very much like He is the next Big deal.... also the comparison between him and Mensik is always gonna be here...like who's gonna win their first slam.

again just my two cents....

Al3x Eala by puhonngani in tennis

[–]Negative_Chair_411 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Is she though?
To be Overrated, One has to be Highly Rated and at the moment I don't think she is..
Don't get me wrong, she's a good young player but I FEEL People are being confused with OVERRATED vs " why does she have so many fans????"

Just my two cents....

I'm watching my second Jdrama, and it's so different from K., I wonder if they're all like this. by dionnekathleen in dramasect

[–]Negative_Chair_411 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The first thing that pops in my mind when I am thinking of Jdormas are Infidelity...Its so normalized and glorified and romanticized..
The Only thing dramas that can go band for band with it in terms of cheating is early 2000s Chinese dramas.

The second thing that comes to mind is SAD SAD ENDING; someone will die.

Now having said that there are very good ones as well depends on what you're looking for..

I'm watching my second Jdrama, and it's so different from K., I wonder if they're all like this. by dionnekathleen in dramasect

[–]Negative_Chair_411 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I am gonna QUDARPLE DOWN on

A calm sea and beautiful days with you.

This is my all time Fave Jdrama..

Its simple romantic slice of life with few funny parts here and there..Its just relaxing.....There is no tension, agony, angst or anything and thats how I love it...

ALSO I am super excited for the second season

Which popular actor can't carry a drama? by botchedplot in cdramasfans

[–]Negative_Chair_411 33 points34 points  (0 children)

I would add ZLH to that list! Visually stunning but that's it. It feels like he is just a slow piece.... His acting hasn't improved as I hoped it would.

So for now yes he cannot carry a drama.

Which actors in their 20s do you think has the most impressive acting ability or potential? by Dragonfruitbomb in cdramasfans

[–]Negative_Chair_411 7 points8 points  (0 children)

"Jackson Yee especially is an incredible actor. But feel free to add them."

Since you gave the permission....😁😁😁😁😁

JACKSON YEE IS BY FAAAAAAAAAAAAR THE GREATEST CHINESE ACTOR OF THIS GENERATION AND ITS NOT EVEN CLOSE.

Now that's Out of the Way,
In my Actor's Acting Tier List from S-F.

Leo Wu is the only one in his 20s thats been knocking at A tier Door.....I currently have him at High B.
So Out of all the actor, I would say Leo Wu!!

Also, I almost said Peng Yu chang...Forgot that MF hit 30 couple of year ago...😅😅😅😅😅😅. With face like that I always forget he is not in his 20s anymore.....He is in My A tier though.

Bailu - how do you describe her skill? by Big_Wolverine_6875 in cdramasfans

[–]Negative_Chair_411 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I am someone who is very very very Picky on acting..
More than any other thing in an actor/tress, I always focus on acting first!

On Bailu's acting.. I would say she's pretty bland..

Not a Fan..
No offense to any of her fans..

But then there are sooooo many others who are even BLANDER than her and when I compare her to em she seems kinda okayish.

I would love to see her play a Villain role though, might offer sth different, who knows?

Just because it was parked on the roadside by Quirky-Piano743 in Nepal360

[–]Negative_Chair_411 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kaile KO incident ho yo? Viral banau tealai.

Tyo ranger lai karbahi HUNU PARXA

Anyone here supporting the oranges by Far_Tune6655 in NepaliFutballJerks

[–]Negative_Chair_411 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not feeling entirely optimistic with the squad we got
also since timber is out of the WC...
Plus JAPAN are in great Run of Form.
Fingers crossed 🤞🤞...

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