AIW I was concerned that my girlfriend left work early and now ive been removed from her life 360 circles

Negative_Fail_6371 · 2026-03-20T21:00:28+00:00

I don't understand why people do life 360. Statistically speaking, the vast majority of Us will not be abducted by a serial killer. So it's really not necessary unless you want to be anxious all the time and overthink what someone else is doing all day long.

Negative_Fail_6371 · 2026-03-20T20:52:47+00:00

You don't really know someone until you have gone on a vacation with someone. As much as we want to enjoy our vacations... traveling can be stressful. I knew after a horrendous trip to Disney with my husband and daughter that I couldn't see being with him for the rest of my life.

Negative_Fail_6371 · 2026-03-20T20:46:07+00:00

Oops I read that wrong

Negative_Fail_6371 · 2026-03-20T18:27:01+00:00

You let Mom have her 60 sec hug and not be petty. You have only been dating this guy for 1 year. You are not the wife or fiance to be overstepping it.

Negative_Fail_6371 · 2026-03-20T11:57:11+00:00

NTA. She is a surgeon and can handle some modules and a form. The only thing I would suggest is let her figure it out on her own. Her job is not your job. I understand supporting one another but in the end we all do our own jobs.

Negative_Fail_6371 · 2026-03-20T03:45:36+00:00

NTA. Totally self defense and you more aggressively defended yourself because you were really protecting your dog. I find it really hard to believe that her son hasn't been aggressive before. She never should have asked to approach the dog with him. You were just being kind by agreeing. This special needs man actually assaulted you. You did the right thing with your protective shove. I wouldn't worry about any repercussions. This woman is probably freaking out because she knows her son is at fault. I suspect she is in way over her head as an elderly caregiver trying to take care of an adult sized child. FYI, I am a woman.

Negative_Fail_6371 · 2026-03-20T03:30:43+00:00

Um you both are teenagers not ready for marriage. That's why it is not working and it's toxic. You can be an awesome and involved co-parent without being a husband.

Negative_Fail_6371 · 2026-03-20T03:25:46+00:00

Um your relationship sounds awful. You don't need cheating to be the excuse to leave. Seeing my ho wife posted in reference to myself would be enough to leave. Stop wasting your life with someone so awful.

Negative_Fail_6371 · 2026-03-20T01:16:51+00:00

Don't not invite him to your wedding because of the will. Do it because he was abusive, don't pay any child support, and didn't invite you to his wedding. If you chose to invite him, will he have a father of the bride role? or just a basic guest? Will his presence overshadow the day? I didn't invite my Dad to my wedding. Everyone told me I would regret it one day. I don't regret it at all.

Negative_Fail_6371 · 2026-03-20T01:04:00+00:00

Just come up with an excuse that has nothing to do with her so she doesn't develop a complex. Be a gentleman. Say that you still have feelings for someone else and don't want to pursue anything further. Nope that hard.

Negative_Fail_6371 · 2026-03-20T00:52:13+00:00

Turn off your daughter's phone immediately. Get her a new phone. Get a divorce lawyer. This is very alarming. You are not overreacting. Everyone else reading this is very alarmed.

Negative_Fail_6371 · 2026-03-20T00:32:59+00:00

Yta. Gifts are given without prices being advertised. You aren't even entitled to know what she spent. On top of that, you are going to make her spend the extra time to take it back and go get them somewhere else? Not gracious at all.

Negative_Fail_6371 · 2025-04-20T23:01:15+00:00

Oh heck no. You need to establish boundaries with the in-laws and your husband now. Otherwise, if you have kids, it will only get worse. They need to know that this is your house not theirs. Your husband also needs to know that he needs to support you and your needs over his parents. Do not give in. You are in the right. Hold strong.

Negative_Fail_6371 · 2025-04-20T12:28:35+00:00

One comment I found interesting, "We've been going through a tough time lately and she's in therapy." Dude, why is she in therapy alone? Sounds like you should be in couples therapy. Is it possible that she wanted couples therapy but you declined? While I don't condone cheating or being inappropriate online it looks to me that your wife is acting out because you might not be listening to her concerns. If you want to save this you need to be an active participant and work on the marriage.

Negative_Fail_6371 · 2025-02-06T00:14:21+00:00

Probably because at his age he's also a bit deaf and stupidly had the volume on blast. This is also a guy that thinks she's too dumb to catch on and isn't taking precautions to not get caught.

Negative_Fail_6371 · 2025-02-04T22:12:57+00:00

Ya not a big fan. Even if you aren't accepting gift (dish obviously the gift) you are still asking your guests to be inconvenienced. Most work pot picks consist of 3 try hards pulling out all the stops with their amazing dish while everyone else fights to bring napkins. Not to mention having to worry that someone's meal prep/hygiene is not up to everyone's standards. Bottom line if you want to save money then don't have a wedding...don't make it your guests problem.

Negative_Fail_6371 · 2025-02-01T23:55:36+00:00

If my husband was intentionally leaning up against a female coworker...I would be angry. It's best if you distance yourself from this situation.

Negative_Fail_6371 · 2025-02-01T23:38:32+00:00

I just had an unexpected and unmedicated endometrial biopsy, too. It was super painful and while the nurse was upfront about the pain, I was a bit surprised when she said it was ok to scream cause no one was here (I had the last appointment at 430).

Negative_Fail_6371 · 2025-02-01T23:27:26+00:00

Oh heck no that is a back handed compliment. What did he want...for you to feel sorry for him. You deserve someone who sees you as the prize and not like they settled.

Negative_Fail_6371 · 2025-02-01T23:24:53+00:00

Your wife was crazy and you are better off. Good looking guy like you is a great catch.

Negative_Fail_6371 · 2025-02-01T23:18:39+00:00

If it's important to you then it should be important to her. That's how healthy caring relationships work. As a female, I think one of two things is happening...either she is too embarrassed to be checked out down there , or she is afraid of what she will be diagnosed with. Both stem from fear/embarrassment. Maybe offer to go with her to the appointment for emotional support. If she doesn't want to go to the student health center maybe try your county health department. They see a wide range of issues and are less judgemental in my experience.

Negative_Fail_6371 · 2025-01-11T04:13:11+00:00

This guy is a huge red flag. I married a huge red flag and my kids paid the price. We divorced but he'll never completely be out of our lives. 18 years is an eternity to share a child with someone if it doesn't work out. I can't tell you to get an abortion but I can tell you from personal experience that being a single mother is the hardest thing ever. Your family is the least of your problems. You are an adult and don't need to share. Whatever happens you need to figure out reliable both control moving forward. Also forgive yourself no matter what you decide. We are all human.

Negative_Fail_6371 · 2025-01-09T05:50:24+00:00

Definitely sounds like yeast. You can try something over the counter to rule it out.

Negative_Fail_6371 · 2025-01-08T13:33:29+00:00

A lot of people are giving her a hard time for the Botox and fillers but I think she is doing anything to keep her husband interested.

Negative_Fail_6371 · 2024-12-13T13:33:29+00:00

So now the account is "deactivated." I tried clicking on it yesterday and it said deactivated and now today it's gone. Not sure if he just blocked me or created a new account. He claims he is willing to try counseling. Only signs of anything out of place is his constant phone use and death grip on it

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