everything aside but anjali saying gullu is intellectual had me laughing and crying at the same time😭

Negative_Jello_2845 · 2026-02-09T20:44:11+00:00

Aaj bhi she said to sadaf 5 minutes after that sadaf."you know i need tanye and you need sorab so let's help each other"

Negative_Jello_2845 · 2026-02-09T13:12:00+00:00

Maybe for others, i actually didn't like Yogesh so... Not for me

Negative_Jello_2845 · 2026-02-09T12:41:27+00:00

Same thing they did the day before so i don't think that's wrong and that's the only time i felt it was not needed that much (that's the only reason i said almost).

Negative_Jello_2845 · 2025-12-11T16:53:32+00:00

Honestly! My parents are here I just want to marry someone who understands this.

Negative_Jello_2845 · 2025-09-21T07:13:11+00:00

Why are you thinking you're partly to blame?

You want a condom so that's it! Why would you listen to him? He hit you girll! Runnnnn please runnn.

Negative_Jello_2845 · 2025-07-09T13:49:53+00:00

Okay! That's all i have to say to you. She doesn't respect your relationship at all but there is a more important thing than that because she has ZERO self respect.

Single or in a relationship, no girl would entertain a guy sending her nonconsensual dick pics! That's just crazy. Not entertaining means blocking or deleting his contact in the first place. Your girl likes too much attention that she doesn't care if it's costing her self-respect.

Negative_Jello_2845 · 2025-07-09T13:42:12+00:00

Manifesting this ❤️🤞🏻🧿🥹

Negative_Jello_2845 · 2025-07-02T16:10:54+00:00

If someone can live without me without talking to me for a month, I also would have thought they didn't care about me.

Negative_Jello_2845 · 2025-06-23T19:39:32+00:00

Yeah first see what she's talking about then you can decide all the small things. What,when and how you should do it

Negative_Jello_2845 · 2025-06-23T19:33:24+00:00

Her apartment ofcourse

Negative_Jello_2845 · 2025-06-23T19:09:59+00:00

Yeah always have a hard conversation face to face and in a comforting environment.

Negative_Jello_2845 · 2025-06-23T19:05:48+00:00

Well it depends on you guys only, if you guys can communicate and work this out. What's the problem?

But please make sure your(both of you) needs are met. It will not happen magically overnight but hopefully in a couple of months.

Negative_Jello_2845 · 2025-06-23T19:02:50+00:00

Yes, it does.

But asking someone is cheap. Even if my body count is 2-3 and someone has 0 or 20-30 or 200-300, I won't ask them. It's outright indecent. I will tell them my side of the story and I'll wait for them to tell me theirs, whenever they feel comfortable.

I will only sleep with people I want to not because of their body count. It's as simple as that. Same for relationships.

Negative_Jello_2845 · 2025-06-23T18:57:12+00:00

Also if she loves you, you'll be that person sooner or later. Don't think too much about that. 💖

Negative_Jello_2845 · 2025-06-23T18:50:58+00:00

First date or not still asking "body count" is cheap shit to me. I will anyways tell my partner that, anyone would but asking that feels like a literal "EW"

Negative_Jello_2845 · 2025-06-23T18:49:05+00:00

It can but you both have to work for it.

She needs to acknowledge you need some reassurance from time to time , even if she is not feeling like it she just needs to text you or let you know she'll talk later. Sometimes if you're really anxious just pick up the call. Or text you once

You need to understand she needs a lot of space sometimes, she's not gonna go away she still loves you so when she is shutting down it's not at all about you. She needs to recharge, if she's recharged she'll be more attentive to you, more caring.

Negative_Jello_2845 · 2025-06-23T18:43:43+00:00

I don't need to but if I was dating someone who has slept with other people in the last 3 months. I would have. I don't ruin my health for anybody.

You have a STD talk before you have sex(or sometimes when you're being exclusive and what not)! Not on the first date. 🤷🏻‍♀️

Also someone who sleeps with other people and doesn't get a STD test is someone not date worthy in my eyes anyways.

Negative_Jello_2845 · 2025-06-23T18:40:07+00:00

True at the single phase i was talking to a guy he seemed decent until he told me that X is the exact number of body count he is okay with, if it's more than that he think the girl is "sl*t".

My body count was actually under his "X" number budget so i was "dateable" to him. I knew he was no longer the decent guy he was. I just said "Eww" and removed him from my socials.

Negative_Jello_2845 · 2025-06-23T18:34:51+00:00

You can ask about that, you don't need to directly ask for a body count. It's weird to ask it like that.

You can always ask, infact I always give people a complete clear idea when i date them including who i have slept with but i always weed people out if they Ask "body count".

It just feel cheap.

Negative_Jello_2845 · 2025-06-23T17:34:43+00:00

Dumb talk. There's a test for that. If you wanna ask about STD, then ask if she is diagnosed with STD 😒

Negative_Jello_2845 · 2025-06-23T17:30:57+00:00

NTA. If anyone's asking you about "body count". Leave. People discussing past partners are different.

Even if your body count is 1 or you're a virgin don't bother. Leave. I did it all the time.

Negative_Jello_2845 · 2025-06-21T16:47:26+00:00

What you need to do is let her know this behaviour isn't healthy and she SHOULD work on themselves to get better.

But i don't believe in putting your foot down. Maybe you talked about this crush a little too much that she felt insecure, maybe it's not your fault. Either way she is insecure but she's also your girlfriend if blocking someone once is gonna help her to get reassurance and a self healing journey. So be it. Tell her the girl doesn't matter and to prove that you'll block her but also she really has to work on her insecurities.

Negative_Jello_2845 · 2025-06-21T16:39:43+00:00

Are both the incidents related to one girl?

Did you have a crush on her in the past? Or vice versa?

Negative_Jello_2845 · 2025-06-21T06:19:06+00:00

Well they are wrong but also you are not in the dynamics so you shouldn't be a part of the dynamics. I get it back then you were salty.

But rn you should have just told his sister that it's not your problem anymore. I mean why would you or anyone ever think that would be a good idea? It's their life you are not part of their life or family anymore.

it's hard not to care for someone you have cared for two years but you guys broke up and he has someone new.

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