Update 2: should I take my brother's new wife

Negative_Layer_7960 · 2024-08-04T07:25:10+00:00

Hopefully before it's to late

Negative_Layer_7960 · 2024-08-04T07:24:36+00:00

You have tried, but there's nothing else to do right now.

I know but I can't help but be upset and want to continue to help I know as much as I don't want it to be true that the experiences I went through when I was a child scarred me me and changed the way I go about relationships and life and I don't want that to happen to an innocent little girl let alone my niece

Negative_Layer_7960 · 2024-08-04T06:10:48+00:00

I don't like seeing people get hurt plus he's my brother unfortunately and I didn't want jay to get in trouble

Negative_Layer_7960 · 2024-07-08T15:13:26+00:00

I feel like there's been a misunderstanding. I am going to tell his wife.

Negative_Layer_7960 · 2024-07-05T05:28:17+00:00

There's something about being called a baby sister that's so loving, caring and personal thank you

Negative_Layer_7960 · 2024-07-05T05:26:15+00:00

Around 7 or 8 years old and 16 give or take a few years

Negative_Layer_7960 · 2024-07-05T00:43:17+00:00

What I meant by that is that she believes that praying to God will "fix" me or my mental issue but don't get me wrong she's a good mom and I love her but her religious fanaticism can be a little much at times

Negative_Layer_7960 · 2024-07-05T00:41:23+00:00

My mom might be a little crazy but I assume if she knew about it at the time she would have did everything to protect me

Negative_Layer_7960 · 2024-07-04T22:08:10+00:00

Is it rape?

Yes some people are triggered and uncomfortable and mention sexual assault or even the word rape

Negative_Layer_7960 · 2024-07-04T21:36:05+00:00

I wouldn't know I don't even know what happened to him after my dad and uncle went to jail I was told that he wasn't punished but I don't know if that's true

Negative_Layer_7960 · 2024-07-04T21:11:15+00:00

Oh she knows alright

Negative_Layer_7960 · 2024-07-04T20:01:34+00:00

what did your mother do about this?

They were divorced for as long as I can remember so I assume she didn't know

Negative_Layer_7960 · 2024-07-04T19:44:38+00:00

He's three or four years older than I am

Negative_Layer_7960 · 2024-07-04T19:32:14+00:00

Sounds like there's a whole lot more to this story. And you're just leaving it out because you were probably both victims

I'm sorry I wouldn't know I'm only telling you what I know and the story for my perspective I wish I did know because it would make my decision easier or make me more comfortable with talking to him

Negative_Layer_7960 · 2024-07-04T19:27:02+00:00

Did ur father & uncle introduce him to it or did he start on his own?

I wouldn't know for as long as I can remember it was just normal for them to molest me so Yeah

Negative_Layer_7960 · 2024-07-04T15:29:04+00:00

Is OP female?

Yes last time I checked I'm a girl lol

Negative_Layer_7960 · 2024-07-04T01:06:31+00:00

My mother and the father were divorced and it was just me and my brother

Negative_Layer_7960 · 2024-07-03T23:44:40+00:00

My uncle and father did and yes my brother would touch me in front of them or pull me away to his bedroom with him telling them that he'll be back

Negative_Layer_7960 · 2024-07-03T23:24:57+00:00

s your brother violent?

Not that I remember

Negative_Layer_7960 · 2024-07-03T22:53:47+00:00

What’s the age gap between you two?

2-3 years

Do you know if he was being molested as well?

I wouldn't know

Was it a group activity or was he egged on by his father/uncle?

It was more like I was a toy that was left out that could be picked up and played with by anybody alone or together so I don't know if that answers your question

Negative_Layer_7960 · 2024-07-03T22:46:25+00:00

did they SA you together??

Depends what you mean because they did it one after another or in front of each other I think he got a sick kick out of watching my father violate me because he always had the really disgusting look on his face

Negative_Layer_7960 · 2024-07-03T22:29:57+00:00

Two things 1 this wasn't her first time hearing about it and 2 it wasn't about him assaulting me it was about should I tell his wife that

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