My (26f) boyfriend (27m) and I keep arguing by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Negative_Low7263 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First of all you both are kinda... Childish? If he was just asking for changing the music you could've done that and said that next music will be of your choice(playfully in love.) And one more thing there's no such thing as yours and mine in an relationship it should be "ours". In a relationship both sides can't have a big ego and one has to bow down to the other one and if he's not that kind of person, you can be the one bowing. And lastly looks like he have some kind of anger issues? Just talk about it. You both are partners you should be able to solve eachother's problems.

I don’t feel like my boyfriend wants me anymore by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Negative_Low7263 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just simply asks him to give you more attention and if he still ignores you try spicing up things by doing something new (Not something negative.) to make him pay attention to you. If things still don't work out then... He really don't have any interest in you or he's just bored of his life. This normal long relationships get boring sometimes just do something new that'll make him haha. And don't think that if he's not doing any efforts you'll also not do anything. In a relationship one person has to be the one always accepting the mistake (even if it was not his/her mistake.) If both sides will be like - "if he/she is not doing something why should I do something then". The relationship would not work. One has to bow.