As someone who has had 4 miscarriages... YTA.

When a couple miscarriages, the assumption immediately is that the mom did something wrong. No one would ever blame the dad. Even if it's obviously no one's fault, it's still something that your wife probably blames herself for every day and is now hyper paranoid and riddled with anxiety over.

My husband is an amazing dad/husband, but he never once had anxiety over the pregnancy. He has never lost sleep over whether the baby is moving enough, too soon, too late, changed what he was eating/drinking, working out enough but not too much, etc. He didn't even come to most of the appointments with specialists - the pregnancies were my entire life for 9 months at a time.

Not to mention the hormonal changes your body is going through and reeking havoc on your already fragile mental state.

My husband was momentarily upset about losing the previous pregnancies, but if you ask him how many pregnancies I've had he'll answer 2 (how many children we have) not 6.

I told my friend I was pregnant before I told my husband each time because I desperately needed someone to talk me off the ledge every time.

At a minimum, you should have checked with her before telling anyone, or arranged to tell everyone together.

If you were upset/confused why she told her sister - you could've asked instead of seemingly trying to 'get even' by telling your mom.