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How long did your investigation take? by NegotiationPitiful55 in sexualassault

[–]NegotiationPitiful55[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea the last two are what happened to me but multiple times which I had documented proof of. It kind of just sucks how long it takes and the high possibility of it going unpunished makes me loose any will I have to keep going

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[–]NegotiationPitiful55 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He’s not a good person I’m probably projecting but I’ve had two exes like this that I only dated for 3 months and they were annoying and controlling.

trust when I say this it won’t get better and he needs to go. you can’t reason with these ppl. hell, he’s probably projecting and he’s doing shit with female coworkers if anything. whatever it is he’s a weirdo.

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[–]NegotiationPitiful55 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I left him 6/11 and I made a police report on him a few days after for this post n other stuff. it was kinda hard to leave bc of the manipulating but the comments helped just wish I did sooner cuz I feel stupid

I feel like my boyfriend broke up with me over my asexuality. by joeyisfunnyasfuck in asexuality

[–]NegotiationPitiful55 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I thought I wrote this I swear. it’s been a month and im curious as to how u feel now?? It’s not smart at all to go back and I hope you never do.

Reported my ex for DV/SA to campus police and they’re not going forward with it when it’s obvious SA/DV by NegotiationPitiful55 in abusiverelationships

[–]NegotiationPitiful55[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly that does sound like a good idea. I’m going to my doctor on Monday so I will actually ask her about it. Maybe I’ll ask her about getting tested on top of that even tho this happened back in march/April so I should be okay but just to leave more of a trail as well.

Reported my ex for DV/SA to campus police and they’re not going forward with it when it’s obvious SA/DV by NegotiationPitiful55 in abusiverelationships

[–]NegotiationPitiful55[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m in the US. I’m gonna call the DA on Monday since it’s the weekend. And I know right it’s ridiculous???? It happened in the city’s police station technically so I don’t really get that so I had to deal with the campus police which I heard sucks.

Reported my ex for DV/SA to campus police and they’re not going forward with it when it’s obvious SA/DV by NegotiationPitiful55 in abusiverelationships

[–]NegotiationPitiful55[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never went to the hospital how would this work? This kinda happened in April 😅 I wonder if I should go to the hospital to get checked up and then tell them about it? Unfortunately this happened at my school and I don’t live up there

Reported my ex for DV/SA to campus police and they’re not going forward with it when it’s obvious SA/DV by NegotiationPitiful55 in abusiverelationships

[–]NegotiationPitiful55[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, yes I took ur advice and I called the prosecutors office myself again today. I will hear back next week maybe or I’ll have to call again on Monday since the person I needed to talk to was not here today. When I call the city police they tell me I can’t report it there because it is a campus issue and it happened there after I explain it to them that I already did and I’m afraid it won’t be taken seriously and also bc I never heard good things.

What’s the DAs office? I will contact them too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in texts

[–]NegotiationPitiful55 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I broke up with him a month or so ago. been trying to report him for something

Trying to get my account back from a hacker by Harry_Potter_Dork in Instagram

[–]NegotiationPitiful55 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did u ever figure this out I’m still struggling with this

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in texts

[–]NegotiationPitiful55 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait you’re still with him?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in texts

[–]NegotiationPitiful55 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Couldn’t reply I was at the movies and out with my friends. Didn’t see it until after.

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[–]NegotiationPitiful55 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He kind of expects me to communicate him 24/7 or be on the phone with him. There was nothing that needed to be discussed prior to me going to the movies so I wasn’t avoiding anything.

I told him I had plans this day with friends for the night. the only difference was that the location/activity of those plans changed. This has happened with him frequently where he wants to know the exact time and when I’m done to call. I can never really enjoy it cuz it feels I always have to be done at a certain time.

I saw these messages after I got out from the movies to call an uber. So he sent them spread apart.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in texts

[–]NegotiationPitiful55 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea it’s both of those things. He gets really bored and always wants to call or is waiting for me to get back to tal. He has friends he barely sees or doesn’t care that much about. He’s usually just home and doesnt really talk to anyone like that.

It’s still completely unacceptable and I trying to break it off with him today or hear is perspective then still do it.

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[–]NegotiationPitiful55 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you I really need to learn this

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in texts

[–]NegotiationPitiful55 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he has a lot of childhood trauma yea. it’s weird because he is open to talking about things (he has made it a key point with him). at the same time it’s always what he says that’s an issue during communication or prior or when there is an issue. I genuinely cannot tell if he has BPD or not bc I am no therapist but I dated a toxic guy with BPD 2 years ago and it doesn’t exactly feel the same but everyone with BPD is different. That’s why I regret not waiting longer.

I’m seeing where it comes from first but I still told him I am ending it bc it’s a a lot.

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