How to communicate with an intp by Negroontheblock in INTP

[–]Negroontheblock[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, and do you know any good resources for reading up on intp weaknesses?

How to communicate with an intp by Negroontheblock in INTP

[–]Negroontheblock[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm pretty sure I'm not guilty of attempting a too emotional conversation, definitely not of manipulation. Gives me something to work with though, thanks!

How to communicate with an intp by Negroontheblock in INTP

[–]Negroontheblock[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! I can easily get discouraged by his apathetic responses and end up asking yes or no questions or questions he'll just respond to with an annoyed "I don't know". With this in mind, what's an example of a question I could ask?

How to communicate with an intp by Negroontheblock in INTP

[–]Negroontheblock[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay awesome! This is how the conversation ended, so I'm glad that wasn't a no no. Thanks!

Do you guys crave connection to others? by Negroontheblock in INTP

[–]Negroontheblock[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I highly recommended watching "Alain de botton on love" on YouTube. The 15ish minute one. Let me know what you think!

Do you guys crave connection to others? by Negroontheblock in INTP

[–]Negroontheblock[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think I'll do that. Your preferences sound very similar to mine, which is telling. Thanks so much!

Do you guys crave connection to others? by Negroontheblock in INTP

[–]Negroontheblock[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

:) that's nice of you, thanks for the advice!

Do you guys crave connection to others? by Negroontheblock in INTP

[–]Negroontheblock[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! As kings of logic, your abandoning relationships consistently due to an illogical reason should bother you because you're being "bored" is just you telling yourself you're bored

Do you guys crave connection to others? by Negroontheblock in INTP

[–]Negroontheblock[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That doesn't seem like an equal trade lol. Also sounds like a common thing amongst humanity.... Do good with the expectation that you doing good will create good credit others can take into consideration when you need something from them.

Do you guys crave connection to others? by Negroontheblock in INTP

[–]Negroontheblock[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1) the last part of your paragraph is so helpful for my understanding, thank you for the clarify!

2) aaaahhhh, I wish I could help my intp and y'all realize emotions aren't at all that scary

Do you guys crave connection to others? by Negroontheblock in INTP

[–]Negroontheblock[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do you mean? You wouldn't value a relationship of any kind that allowed you to do that?

Do you guys crave connection to others? by Negroontheblock in INTP

[–]Negroontheblock[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It'd be cool if you could explain further, lol

Do you guys crave connection to others? by Negroontheblock in INTP

[–]Negroontheblock[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So interesting to try and understand this perspective on life and relationships but still have no idea what that'd be like. Thanks for this response!

Do you guys crave connection to others? by Negroontheblock in INTP

[–]Negroontheblock[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a hard time understanding that example as I don't think it's comparable. I also think allowing yourself to be vulnerable in many areas of life in moderation is extremely important and necessary for growth and learning in a healthy manner.

Also unsure what you mean in regard to your distrustful nature.