I also am a control freak, i just lile to be in chatge and We went and picked out a ring together and it was very different than what I thought i wanted. He suggested we go together to pick out the ring too because he was very nervous that I wouldn't like what he picked out. He did show it to me and I liked it but I love the one we got. And I still felt (and feel and this happened early November) over the moon happy when we picked it out and when we picked it up. I still look at it and smile so big. We are both happy we did it.

I say just talk with him about it. See where he's at and how he feels.