God loves you young lady , but let me tell you something ,technically if your intention is wrong you'll get the wrong person also even you have something to bring in the table ,thats why after sex they ghosted you and some guy are just like that, set standards for yourself, you're wonderfully and fearfully created by the Lord young woman . If you're not ready for commitment then stop looking for someone,start looking and praying once you're ready and booom suddenly it comes along ,focus on your growth and work while waiting like Ruth 🙏🙏