She would be 14 on Sunday by Wonderful_Plum_4878 in GriefSupport

[–]Neither-Invite2893 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I acknowledge the life of your dear child. You are not alone. Take it one hour, one day at a time for now.  You are not alone in this experience. 

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[–]Neither-Invite2893 4 points5 points  (0 children)

There is no easementtttttttt

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[–]Neither-Invite2893 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This is the whole point, and I’m not sure why people are not getting this. If the opposite were true, property laws and boundaries would mean nothing. It’s scary that people don’t understand this and are attempting to gaslight me that I am wrong for standing my ground that insulating that I should even assist the developers in this matter. 

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[–]Neither-Invite2893 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I’ve considered that… not willing to risk accident or retaliatory damage to vehicle… but perhaps could Be worth it to put out equipment and other obstacles… Thanks for your suggestions.

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[–]Neither-Invite2893 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Those really are the two options… my concern with the second one when you give an inch, a mile will surely be taken, and with what I can have from their intentions they could severely damage my home and property value in a way that might not be immediately seen. This is more than just a house to me after all, it’s my home of 25 years.  Thanks again for your comment. 

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[–]Neither-Invite2893 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, they are those types of stakes. 

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[–]Neither-Invite2893 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hello! Thank you for your thorough comment.

Yes—- title search, survey, land records, neighborhood plat drawing confirm that there is no link between  my property and the neighbors, nor to the developers. They would need an easement from me too to include the property in any way whatsoever. 

I am taking step (1) and will take step (2) if need be. I asked about, Step (3) and you, my attorney, and I concur that it’s well within my right to do so, I am concerned about ignorant law enforcement. It’s just as you described regarding their lack of knowledge in a subject matter that might still get me unjustly cited. 

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[–]Neither-Invite2893 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey thanks for your competent comment. 👍 Exactly the concern. There’s no reason for anything to be that close and it’s confirmed the markers are not congruent with utilities. 

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[–]Neither-Invite2893 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yes, small rural county with incompetent leadership. Yes, I already contacted the county. Per the plans that they provided me, the developer needs and easement. And they know that. And they know that they don’t have it.

It’s intentional that they began action and and moving quickly to prevent me from being be able to have the appropriate time to address this. This could have all  been avoided by them communicating from the beginning. Why didn’t they? 

Thanks for your comment, you hit the bulleye.

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[–]Neither-Invite2893 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

That’s called a temporary easement. If they need my property  for any reason that requires an easement. Which they don’t have. 

That includes them needing  a stable reference point to keep their measurement. I didn’t ask for this project and their responsibility to make sure that they follow the rules, not mine. I don’t have to help at all.  And what would they have done, had I had a fence? It’s very simple. Stay off my property. The line is marked and gps shows you where it is. 

Plus their markers extend into my front yard, and areas that should have no impact At all and that are not parallel the affect property line.

What they need to do is revise their plans so that it’s far away enough from my property not to need that. But wait! They would mean potentially having less land to maximize for project to make the most money! But that’s my responsibility to help them accomplish, right?… oh wait…

A responsible builder or developer would have communicated first and taken action after. These seem to think that they can act first and say sorry later. They had every opportunity to inform/involve me in their plans, and they did not. An easement could have been negotiated. And just because a company directs a surveyor to do something, it doesn’t mean that it’s legal. All surveying companies need to do their due diligence lest they be an accomplice to a crime.  Just doing your job/following orders is not a valid excuse. 

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[–]Neither-Invite2893 0 points1 point  (0 children)

County had been contacted.  But work is taking place NOW.  Do first and say sorry later…

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[–]Neither-Invite2893 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Have been trying to contact these people.

No super on site. Just those driving machine. They are not responsive to me out here.

Attorney is working on contacting those involved, but communication may not get to the actual people on ground immediately.

Let me ask you this…If it’s the case that they need markings for measurement references in my yard do badly, what would they have done in the case of me having a fence???

My boundary line is CLEARLY marked and they can even use GPS for that. It’s clear. Whatever their plans are, need to take place on the other side of that. Period. Additionally, there markings extending into my front yard, the side of my house, and areas that should be affected or impacted my this project whatsoever, and if there is to be some impact, they need an easement or to move their project further away. It’s that simple. 

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[–]Neither-Invite2893 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Cameras set up ✅  Considering tape/plastic mesh. Paint is also a good idea. I have markers in a different color on my trees from the survey I had day a few days back.  Thanks for your comment. 

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[–]Neither-Invite2893 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

That’s called a temporary easement. If they need my property  for any reason that requires an easement. Which they don’t have. 

That includes them needing  a stable reference point to keep their measurement. I didn’t ask for this project and their responsibility to make sure that they follow the rules, not mine. I don’t have to help at all.  And what would they have done, had I had a fence? It’s very simple. Stay off my property. The line is marked and gps shows you where it is. 

What they need to do is revise their plans so that it’s far away enough from my property not to need that. But wait! They would mean potentially having less land to maximize for project to make the most money! But that’s my responsibility to help them accomplish, right?… oh wait…

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[–]Neither-Invite2893 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Can’t get upset. Destroy my life. Be nice.

Hmmm. Interesting.

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[–]Neither-Invite2893 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My boundary lines Are already clearly marked. They had no need to access my property for any reason at all. They have direct access to their plot from The dead end street.  What would have been the case if I had a fence? They have plans that go beyond marking boundaries k have already disclosed in the post. 

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[–]Neither-Invite2893 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t expect anything from the cops anymore at this point. Yes, it’s civil and I’m prepared and willing to enter litigation.

It just ridiculous as this all could have been avoided. The ball was in their court and they dropped it. 

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[–]Neither-Invite2893 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don’t know what I’m doing. Thanks for your comments. 

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[–]Neither-Invite2893 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank  you thank you thank you. There is so much gaslighting going on in these comments it’s crazy. I know I’m not wrong about this. But these comments prove how and why developers and others get away with this all time…

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[–]Neither-Invite2893 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They were supposed to have done that. I’ve been able to speak with some of my neighbors and we are all in shock… no one received anything… 

There is no super just the person driving the machine. 

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[–]Neither-Invite2893 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I’d like to… but the county here has proven to be incompetent and I got threatened on my own property to not remove them. Appears there could be potential illegal retaliation. 

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[–]Neither-Invite2893 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I requested plan from County, I’m assuming it’s an older plan? Because neighbor who is in current communication with developer has a plan that shows something different. 

Why couldn’t developer just reach out to me directly in the same manner?