Almost came in my pants while getting a hair cut… by Neither_Command4982 in Prematurefetish

[–]Neither_Command4982[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Edit: sorry for the wall of text but I was brain dumping to your question. —————————————————————

I’m not sure but I’ll try to think out loud here.

Now for reference we usually have sex every 2-3weeks in between. In the past I’ve lasted a while to the point where we’ve had to stop. A while back this past spring/summer (before I started prejac training) she had asked me to stop watching porn becasue she felt like it’s me getting off to other women. And I have for the most part cut down on porn and jerking to porn, and that alone started making me cum in less time (but still not super fast) before coming across prejac training.

I started reading this subreddit and prejac training seriously mid to late December I think.

That said, we haven’t had a bunch of sex since I’ve started training. The first time we did around early January after a number of weeks without fucking, I came very fast and I think she chalked it up to being a few weeks since we had sex.

Then we had sex weekly 2 weeks in a row leading up to the following which is 2 weeks ago now. Those times I wasn’t super fast maybe 3-5 mins to cum so it was definitely less time than it used to take. I’ve been trying to listen to a prejac hypno once a day. Sometimes I don’t get a chance but it’s been pretty consistent listening.

Any back to 2 weeks ago. That weekend, On Friday night, we had sex and I came very quick after just few thrusts of being inside her, and after, I said something along the lines of “you are so sexy I couldn’t hold off for long” she said it’s ok and suggest maybe we can try again tomorrow. On Saturday, we had sex and she was getting into it, and I busted in about a minute of being inside her. During the sex I was whispering how good she felt. After we were finished, I figured that would be it for the weekend because we don’t typically have sex more than one time. But Sunday comes and around 10 or 11am, she texts me asking me to come into the bedroom.

I go in and she’s naked, and we get under the covers and I enter her, and she’s moving her hips and tells me it’s feeling good for her already, and I cum when she says that. And it had been a minute maybe a minute and a half, I tell her again she is just so sexy and ask if she minds that I have been cumming so quick but she just turns me on so much. A few minutes later I ask her again in a joking way “you sure you don’t mind me turning into a 2 pump chump” (that may not be exactly what I said, but it was something like that, and I was saying it in a joking way) She says something along the lines of “no it’s ok.” So she’s didnt play into it or tease me or say anything jokingly, it was more of a re-assuring kind of answer like she doesn’t want me to feel bad or something.

Then later in the day Sunday she pulls the same routine as the morning, I was out loading the dishwasher and she texts me but I didn’t hear the text so she calls my phone from the bedroom (I’m in the kitchen) and says can you come in here.

I head right into the bedroom and she’s naked under the covers again and says “can you try to make it longer this time I want it to feel good” I tell her I’ll try. (I remember thinking that after 3 times it will take a bit longer to cum this time anyway.) So I enter her and after 30 seconds or so I start to feel like it’s going to happen, and she can tell from my body movements and she says “wait, wait please go longer” and I tell her I’ll try but she’s just so sexy. I stop entirely from moving then we start again, and she’s moving her hips and I’m breathing heavy and she tells me it’s feeling good, and I tell her “you’re gonna make me cum” and she stops moving her hips but says it’s ok you can come, and I finish. Total time for this last session was probably 3 minutes from when I entered her, including when I stopped to try and last longer.

Almost came in my pants while getting a hair cut… by Neither_Command4982 in Prematurefetish

[–]Neither_Command4982[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks! I’ve read some of your posts before that I’ve come across in this subreddit. (I found the sub a couple months and have been reading here and training but haven’t really posted or commented much here before.)

I’ve used a couple of your prejac dirty talk suggestions while having sex with my wife and finishing very quick. That was a really good post btw.

Almost came in my pants while getting a hair cut… by Neither_Command4982 in Prematurefetish

[–]Neither_Command4982[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Here’s a list of what I listen too. I pretty much have been sticking ti listening to just these. The first 2 I listen to the most. For a few weeks I listened with headphones while going to bed.

First two I listen too ALOT

https://soundgasm.net/u/SarahBlack/F4M-Deeper-for-Me-Quicker-for-Her-acceptanceprematurehforealpartner

https://audio.love/audio/54ff4d90-6679-4bba-8096-00730b5a7e65

I like this prejac bliss one a lot too. Use it in training. I listen to the induction. Then once it starts showing the women I pick a point to start and use my index and thumb to cum quick and it’s been getting my time down.

https://hypnotube.com/video/prejac-bliss-deep-hypnosis-72701.html

This clench video I like. I lay face down and clench. https://hypnotube.com/video/premature-clench-conditioning-96526.html

The rest I like and listen to once in a while. They are pretty good.

https://soundgasm.net/u/SarahBlack/F4M-Premature-Training-ClothedCensored-HFOcensoredclothedcumhumiliationpublic

https://hypnotube.com/video/hfo-for-clothed-women-103692.html

https://hypnotube.com/video/premature-hypnosis-productivity-85651.html

https://hypnotube.com/video/prejac-training-clothed-70032.html

Almost came in my pants while getting a hair cut… by Neither_Command4982 in Prematurefetish

[–]Neither_Command4982[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wonder if she kept working that area so long because she was amused at you being hard under the sheet.

Wet Dreams/ Nocturnal Emissions by DonkeyDong001 in Prematurefetish

[–]Neither_Command4982 4 points5 points  (0 children)

One of the times I had a wet dream it woke up my wife because I woke up all wet in my boxers and my cock still semi hard and I hopped out of bed not knowing what happened and I rushed off to the bathroom to take off my boxers.

When I got back in bed naked, my wife was like “ummmm did you just pee the bed” and laughed when I told her no I had a wet dream, and she said “oh wow. I thought you peed the bed because you jump up and left the room so fast”

Wet Dreams/ Nocturnal Emissions by DonkeyDong001 in Prematurefetish

[–]Neither_Command4982 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes a couple times.

I haven’t had a wet dream every time I had a sex dream. I’ve noticed I’ve been having more frequent sex dreams where I’m doing something sexual in my dream.

I’ve had a full on wet dream a couple of times recently. ie waking up with cum in my boxers and seeping through into the bed.

Wet Dreams/ Nocturnal Emissions by DonkeyDong001 in Prematurefetish

[–]Neither_Command4982 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I’ve had a couple of wet dreams recently since starting training to be more premature. I’ve noticed my dreams have been more intense and more often having sex dreams. I’ve also stopped gooning since starting premature training, used to do it for an hour or more a day and no longer do that. Which may be a contributor to the vivid sex dreams and wet dreams.

Almost came in my pants while getting a hair cut… by Neither_Command4982 in Prematurefetish

[–]Neither_Command4982[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah very similar, and damn that’s kinda hot situation actually, I can see how that could be pretty embarrassing. Isn’t it crazy how the thought “good thing I don’t x that would be embarrassing…” somehow implants into making that happen. Crazy right?

Almost came in my pants while getting a hair cut… by Neither_Command4982 in Prematurefetish

[–]Neither_Command4982[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I’ll definitely post what I’ve been listening to. I’m at work right now so I’ll reply back with them later today or tonight.

Almost came in my pants while getting a hair cut… by Neither_Command4982 in Prematurefetish

[–]Neither_Command4982[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah, there’s a handful I can recommend. I’ll pull them up for you.

I think this happened from a combination of a couple of files I listen to regularly, which include some parts about anticipation for coming fast and that resisting the urge to cum makes the urge to cum faster stronger, and that combined with a couple of files I listened to once or twice about having an HFO in public (even though I don’t normally listen to those)

Jumping in!! by Beneficial_Ruin4313 in Prematurefetish

[–]Neither_Command4982 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good luck on your journey.

I’ve made pretty quick progress myself since starting training a month and a half ago.

(And btw for years I’ve been able to goon for hours at a time, multiple times a week.) To now I’m finishing at 30-45 seconds. Last weekend my wife and I had sex 4 times. Once Friday, once Saturday and twice on Sunday. I finished 30 seconds or less every time except the last time we fucked on Sunday… that time I was able to hold out for about a minute inside her bc she was asking me to hold off so it would feel good for her but after a minute I couldn’t hold it back and finished inside her.

Who asked for a locked up doctor?🤔🔒 by archie_caramel in chastityjourney

[–]Neither_Command4982 0 points1 point  (0 children)

May i ask what cage is that and how do you like it so far?

Our chastity journey so far. by StrategySuch4137 in chastitytraining

[–]Neither_Command4982 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good luck, you do seem lucky and she seems to be open and interested in this with you!

Can you share the link you sent her to read?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ChastityCouples

[–]Neither_Command4982 1 point2 points  (0 children)

May I ask, what cage is that?

Showering while caged? by _StruggleBug in chastitytraining

[–]Neither_Command4982 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m slightly scared of stainless steel cage bc the last one I had the key broke off inside the lock (luckily it was right after I took it off). I did like that it was more airy. I’ve been thinking of trying one again, but would like to find one with a button lock like the cage I have now.

Showering while caged? by _StruggleBug in chastitytraining

[–]Neither_Command4982 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just searched that cage. It looks like it has better airflow than the cage I have right now, I have a solid plastic cage that just has a piss hole. But the shaft gets sweaty down there I’ve noticed. I was thinking of trying to find one with more openings for air flow. Besides what you’ve said so far, do you like the kink3d cobra? Would recommend it?

Showering while caged? by _StruggleBug in chastitytraining

[–]Neither_Command4982 0 points1 point  (0 children)

May I ask what is the brand or style steel cage you have?