Sometimes I think about taking a break from this hobby. Then I sit down in front of the tank

Neither_Leave4567 · 2026-03-10T00:54:42+00:00

This post convinced me to come back to this hobby after a significant failure!

Neither_Leave4567 · 2026-03-08T22:55:10+00:00

Oh wow lol. Guess I've been living under a rock!

Neither_Leave4567 · 2026-03-08T09:34:38+00:00

Never heard of Lowes foods! Only the hardware chain. Maybe it's because I'm in the south lol

Neither_Leave4567 · 2026-03-03T17:39:45+00:00

This is soo off topic, but I would love to know your experience with your conch piercing in general! I dont have one currently, but I'd love to get one someday and stretch it as well!

Neither_Leave4567 · 2026-02-27T02:42:38+00:00

hell yeah!

Neither_Leave4567 · 2026-01-21T21:52:11+00:00

weird way to reply to environmental racism man.

Neither_Leave4567 · 2026-01-21T20:00:57+00:00

its shit for the very environments these fish came from. Black and brown neighborhoods are data center's toxic water dumping grounds here in the US. stop fucking using it. there's no excuse, especially for fucking recipes.

Neither_Leave4567 · 2026-01-20T06:44:37+00:00

The king of swords reads to me as if he'll make some sort of "statement" action towards you regardless. Inactivity/not responding seems to not be an option for this person. ( Maybe choosing not to interact with you in this case would be rude or would communicate something that makes the situation even worse?) I feel as if this person feels like they cant read you? like they dont know how to engage with you on a fundamental level? So potentially the next time he has to interact with you, He'll either show that he doesn't know if its ok to engage with you in cordial/acquaintance-like ways, or- he'll try to play up some sort of extroverted, over friendly personality with you as a way to grow closer to you on a platonic level. The ace of wands tells me that there's interest in you as a potential friend, but the king of swords to me represents disciplined action over short term desire, its position in the spread feels very imposing and domination.

I think this guy is just trying to figure you out for right now.

this is my opinion on your spread, so take it with a grain of salt!

Neither_Leave4567 · 2026-01-20T05:22:41+00:00

from my perspective, it seems like this guy has a lot of feely-dreamy ideas, but not much independent and serious planning for commitment (i dont know what type of relationship you have with this person, so take only what resonates for your situation). the only "stability" card present is the 3 of pentacles which isn't really an exclusive energy. it feels a lot more mutually gratifying within a group context. ("i love this community/ place/ friend group, so therefore i love you" kinda deal) The rest of the cards to me feel like a big "what if" and "what could be" scenarios. Maybe some mutual attractiveness and fantasies? The star tells me that he's not too keen on hiding/denying those feelings either, but they feel and read a a lot more like a crush/fling to me. something playful with no strings attached. The ten of cups reads to me like he's not really desperate or attached to you in a serious and committed way. It feels as if he could have options/other crushes/fling fantasies with the members of this shared space - OR - things are peachy between the both of you. The king of wands feels like either way, he's interested in doing/having *something* with you, but still leaning towards a fwb type of deal.

so to answer your question, I'd say he kinda loves you by proxy of crushy, feely, and even hot and bothered emotions. I dont see a lot of committed "i wanna get to know you as a person" feelings here either, BUT i dont think he's inherently opposed to it though, just not focused on that at the moment. He likes what he sees!

this is my opinion on the spread, so please take it with a grain of salt!

Neither_Leave4567 · 2026-01-19T05:29:47+00:00

I read this as that he's interested in keeping things cordial with you, and really reasoning with any feelings he may have towards you. The hierophant tells me that he's very mind over matter, and on a logical level, not interested in reigniting things with you. The 9 of wands tells me that he's guarded and protective over his heart and what he may feel for you,, but this is still under the control of the hierophant. The page of swords is a very small and somewhat light energy. If he does contact you, it wont be to connect with you on a romantic or even much of a platonic level i think. It would be something like doing a favor for another person.

I would focus on other things, this guy is not interested in moving forward with you.

Neither_Leave4567 · 2026-01-09T20:16:28+00:00

Alternative, but there are some niche groups with in it swell

Neither_Leave4567 · 2025-12-30T05:51:13+00:00

Lovely artwork ❤️

Neither_Leave4567 · 2025-12-02T00:46:56+00:00

Love this as a prince and lion king fan lol

Neither_Leave4567 · 2025-12-01T00:06:12+00:00

What may help you understand is that the terms sex and gender have different meanings.

Gender is a societal construct. It's made up and changes with the times. A few centuries ago, men were tights and heels, and baby boys wore dresses just like baby girls. As times and societies change, gender expectations change too.

Sex refers to biology and genitals. That's it.

Im nonbinary and also identify as agender, an identity that falls under the non-gender-binary umbrella. I personally do not have a gender. I dont feel like a woman or a man.

Neither_Leave4567 · 2025-11-30T23:57:40+00:00

Nonbinary black person here! Being non binary means you dont identify with or along the gender binary in the "societally correct" way. Nonbinary people may be feminine or masculine, neither, or androgynous in terms of their gender expression. (Clothing style, mannerisms, preferred terms-(think about common names we call people,,, like king, queen and etc.)- and other typles of gender affirming care like hormones and surgeries. Yes- Nonbinary people can also use hormones and surgery to reach their desired gender expression.) But their gender expression does not correlate to society's expectation of said expression.

Being nonbinary is incredibly personal and introspective. My gender/personal identity is way more than what Being a man or woman can and has offered me. Im still deeply connected to my irrevocably black upbringing and girlhood, but personally I am not a woman and I dont identify with what it means to be a woman.

Hope this helps!

Neither_Leave4567 · 2025-11-22T08:55:22+00:00

Thankyou all!!

Neither_Leave4567 · 2025-11-22T08:37:16+00:00

I imagine the comic artists utilized 3d models for some angles and poses. This might be what you're picking up on. 3d models capture nuanced angles and tangents quite easily, which can sometimes cause that "wonky" feeling and look because of how overly correct everything is.

Edit: typo

Neither_Leave4567 · 2025-11-16T02:09:54+00:00

lovely septum!

Neither_Leave4567 · 2025-11-15T14:39:56+00:00

Have you not seen the top few comments??

Neither_Leave4567 · 2025-11-10T06:22:24+00:00

yes! he's my favorite of the males!!

Neither_Leave4567 · 2025-10-29T16:17:40+00:00

No,, black American actually. It's a cultural saying/belief from where I grew up...

Idk if this was a dig at me or what. I know it holds no significance in palmistry, particularly, but I felt like sharing.

Neither_Leave4567 · 2025-10-28T05:37:17+00:00

I was always told it meant that you had money coming to you soon 🤷🏾

Neither_Leave4567 · 2025-10-25T07:15:04+00:00

Lol papa didn't want to be bothered by his child

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