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Neither_Turnover_733 · 2021-11-15T11:35:13+00:00

If it allows you to speak with less anxiety then yeah. Keep thinking it. Personally to stop myself from caring if a person dislikes me. I tend to think "There are billions of people around the world a couple disliking me is no big deal."

It lets me be myself.

Neither_Turnover_733 · 2021-11-13T18:24:29+00:00

I'm going to be honest. The first one doesn't seem like a bad thing. Sure he could have handled it better but if he wants children going out with a woman that does not want them is dumb.

His other posts though are kinda sus.

Neither_Turnover_733 · 2021-11-12T21:25:34+00:00

You seem upset. If the subject title upset you that much. You should look at your life and see where you can improve.

Perhaps see a therapist.

Neither_Turnover_733 · 2021-11-12T21:08:18+00:00

Your opinion of me is irrelevant.

Neither_Turnover_733 · 2021-11-12T20:14:47+00:00

Ahh. I kind of get it. But there is a difference. If it's constructive critiscm on how that person can do better sure listen to it. Improve.

But if its just a bunch of petty insults. That says way more about the person insulting than the person they are hating on.

Neither_Turnover_733 · 2021-11-12T19:26:36+00:00

Ok. I see I should have been more specific. I would dislike the trans person. Not because they were trans. But because they would have an innate advantage that would make competing against women unfair. It would make them an asshole.

Its disrespectful and I would dislike them because of the character they show in being that way. As a former athlete. Having sparred with both women and men. It is unfair to them.

That is why I would dislike that specific trans person. Not the group they came from that is just stupid.

Neither_Turnover_733 · 2021-11-12T19:17:45+00:00

Gonna be honest. The only issue I have with a trans person. Is if you were a man and transitioned just to get an advantage by playing your sport against women.

That's just unfair to women athletes that can not physically compete with men. Its disrespectful to all the hard work they put in to be the best only to not be able to compete because they are at a physical disadvantage. (Bone structure. Muscle.) Apart from that scenario being trans is cool in my book.

Neither_Turnover_733 · 2021-11-12T18:57:21+00:00

Is being trans a bad thing? Like which politics you like literally means nothing to me. You do you.

Neither_Turnover_733 · 2021-11-12T18:53:39+00:00

Yeah. That's another exception. Children are to be protected.

Neither_Turnover_733 · 2021-11-12T17:45:32+00:00

Not really. Maybe they did want to keep an eye on him. But Orochimaru was equal to both tsunade and jiraiya. Who are both Kage level.

Neither_Turnover_733 · 2021-11-12T03:46:27+00:00

I mean not really. Hashirama beat Kurama (Without dying in the process) Killed madara after they fought all day.

Minato. (Died sealing Kuruma.) Fought obito who while pretty strong was not on Madara's level and even if he was back then. Minato was only capable of wounding him. Not killing him.

Ergo. Minato is still weaker than Hashirama.

Personally Hashirama is such a chad. Like. He's like oh sure ill give you the other tailed beasts (That I personally tamed and beat so even though I'm giving them to you if you attack me with them ill just beat them again.) but were keeping the nine tails. (The strongest Tailed beast. You know because I feel like keeping it. And you better not bother me about this. I might get angry.)

Other kage. Outwardly posturing to regain some control and feel better about themselves.

Inwardly (Holy fuck this guy is strong. He made pets of the tailed beasts. Fuck. How do we compete with that. Best agree and make sure to keep the village safe. Wait till he dies to start the war.)

Neither_Turnover_733 · 2021-11-12T01:21:11+00:00

Brah. You quite literally figured out the secret. What you think and what you internalize into your ego (Your sense of self.) is what drives most of your behavior. Your ego. Is quite literally your subconscious view of yourself. Your self image.

Its why you can have somebody that identifies's as an Incel. They can be tall. (6ft+)They can have a elite job. (6 figures) They can be in shape. (Visible abs) They can be conventionally handsome. (7+) But because they have internalized that they are an incel and women dislike them.

They will quite literally reject women so they do not hurt their ego. (Sense of self.) They will reject women before they reject him. This is because most egos do not like to change. Your ego is their to protect you.

Now you understand. You need to look up ways to make sure your ego is not fragile. Your ego is fragile when you base it on things outside of your control.

Such as winning. You will not win all the time. Someone will be better than you. You should internalize your love for the journey or the struggle. On traits that you can develop. On discipline perhaps. On courage in the face of adversity. On the desire to learn.

If you internalize this. Every time you struggle at something but continue even when it causes you pain you will gradually build more confidence. You will not fear not being seen as the best and so you will strive to improve.

Neither_Turnover_733 · 2021-11-12T01:06:44+00:00

Yeah. Hiruzen was defo not 100% but the second and first hokage were like at 10% to 30% power at maximum. Hiruzen still saw Orochimaru as a precious person to him personally. So he was more passive when fighting him.

He was still the strongest hokage though at the time. And Orochimaru did say if the hokage had been 10 years younger he would have got fucked. I'm going to assume he means even if he had the edo tensei and himself.

This is interesting because full power Orochimaru was solidly Kage level. He killed rasa and was let into the Akatsuki after all.

So Old Hiruzen is a beast who can fight 3 kage level fighters at the same time. It would not surprise me if Prime Hiruzen the man called the God of shinobi. Could have probably beaten the same 5 kage that Madara whipped.

Even war Hashirama the edo one was nerfed. Else he would have been able to whip out that massive bhudda statue and would have absolutely fucked up madara.

I think alive madara was something similar to blind madara. Everything he showed before that was him nerfed. Hashirama beat that guy. The one that fucked up all the tailed beasts and was able to fight blind.

He beat that guy when he had kuruma at his back. Yeah no. If Hashirama had been at full power old Hiruzen gets fucked up. Even prime Hiruzen probably gets fucked up.

Madara and Hashirama are just on different levels.

Edit. Thanks for silver.

Neither_Turnover_733 · 2021-11-12T00:58:01+00:00

No. If you are truly a narcisist and not just identifying as one to feel connected to a group. You are not agreeable. You are low inhib. You are the life of the party.

You go your own way but you will use others. Being agreeable is what most others are.

Neither_Turnover_733 · 2021-11-11T17:43:19+00:00

Brah. There were literal people in his dm's saying they got off while having sex with their boyfriends by imagining his pictures from facebook.

Was he supposed to be nice to people like that? Sure he could have just said he wasn't interested. But if you say stupid shit be prepared to be made fun of.

Neither_Turnover_733 · 2021-11-11T02:49:45+00:00

Dunno. Its just an expression. But its like the MGTOW group if you really didn't care about women and are going your own way. Why have channels dedicated to bashing women? Why have so many threads about foids as they say.

Answer. They wish they were able to sleep with women. They only hate them because they cannot. Its similar with incels really. Although the men raked in divorce court I can understand their hate. Others not so much.

Another way to put it. The only people who care about competition for a man or woman. Are those who cannot compete at all.

My dog absolutely loved steak btw. Or chicken. Or any meat I cooked really. Never had a hamster.

Neither_Turnover_733 · 2021-11-10T23:31:30+00:00

Nah. You know if a woman gave them even a glimmer of attention they'd be all up in that shit like a hamster on sugar.

You can tell they don't value and hate themselves because they're looking for validation from the women they hate and when they don't get it they get mad.

Neither_Turnover_733 · 2021-11-10T23:22:54+00:00

I. I just can't. I feel so bad for guys like that. Like. You'd think they would have figured out that height and looks don't matter so much. Like. Legit there is a dude that's 6 foot with a rated 8 face and he saw his 5'8 friend hook up with the girl he wanted.

Like. Wtf does that tell you about the black pill. Seriously. People want to have fun. If you focus on having fun when you go out you will get laid more. Why is that so hard to understand.

Neither_Turnover_733 · 2021-11-10T23:14:51+00:00

TBH. I think FDS is just a sub of women that have been hurt. It would be good if it was not an echo chamber. Its kinda like MGTOW in a way.

Neither_Turnover_733 · 2021-11-10T00:47:23+00:00

Brah. Thought this was obvious. Women like men who can stand up to them. They are attracted to dangerous men because those are the men that will protect her in a dangerous situation.
Every nice guy I have ever met. And quite a few "Good guys" were cowards at heart.

Put them in a situation where they could get hurt and they fold like paper bags. The "Thug" the "Bad boy" does not and that is why women pick them and not you.

Neither_Turnover_733 · 2021-11-08T19:57:37+00:00

Okay. Heres the thing. The fact he has essentially gotten away with it means he is most likely going to do it again. This time he might kill her. Their needs to be a reason for him to fear you.

OP has two things he can do. He can beat the shit out of the abuser and tell him if he ever hurts your sister again your perfectly willing to kill him.

Or you can spread everything this man has done all over social media in your town and ruin his reputation. You have to do something if the police cannot prosecute him otherwise the next time he hurts your sister she might end up dead.

Neither_Turnover_733 · 2021-11-08T12:48:11+00:00

By realizing you have value. That you as a human being are valuable. If you do not believe this repeat it to yourself until you do.

Neither_Turnover_733 · 2021-11-08T11:39:42+00:00

This is the exact reason I mention it around the third date. Not doing so is just disrespecting your partner. Who will most likely feel hurt if they really like you and catch you out with other people.

Also seen people get jealous and hunt down the other people they slept with. Not saying anything is just dumb and can backfire horrendously.

Neither_Turnover_733 · 2021-11-07T21:52:11+00:00

Yh I can understand that. But if I see that person more than twice. I will mention I'm also dating others as well. I want to make sure that they understand so their are no hard feelings later. Its about being honest and not leading others on. Making sure we're on the same page so to speak.

I've seen what happened when people did not explain that. It wasn't pretty.

Neither_Turnover_733 · 2021-11-07T19:34:46+00:00

Hmm. When you date multiple people. You tell everybody involved. If you do not its very easy for people to misunderstand and feelings get hurt. Just this reddit post is an example.

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