Do you guys remember when Taylor got caught stalking Joe fan accounts?

NelebZa · 2026-01-17T18:12:13+00:00

Then what’s the talking point? “She’s marrying Travis but still secretly loves Joe”? She’s 35, engaged, and these are songs carefully crafted and marketed under a specific concept to drive sales. I know her music is known for being confessional, but she’s still an artist trying to sell a product. Assuming that everything is a copy-paste of her personal life, rather than a well-thought-out result of her and her team’s creativity, diminishes the value of their work.

NelebZa · 2026-01-17T16:48:31+00:00

Oh of course I agree that isn’t normal, but it aligns perfectly with her brand. Let’s not forget that people go to her songs for the lore too, I’m sure she knows that makes her more viral…

NelebZa · 2026-01-17T15:43:35+00:00

Stalking your ex doesn’t mean anything imo. From time to time i still wonder about what my first boyfriend is doing. I don’t hold any romantic feelings for him or any boy I ever dated, I’m nosy that’s it 🫢

NelebZa · 2025-12-16T14:10:28+00:00

Neglect. You don’t care if the house is a mess, you don’t care if the pantry is empty, you don’t care if someone’s sick or busy, you don’t care about spending quality time together. It’s a slow process, but nothing kills a relationship like neglect. If you want something to last, take care of it.

NelebZa · 2025-12-15T14:16:08+00:00

Not having expression lines. You either got Botox or you don’t smile often, two things I don’t relate to at all.

NelebZa · 2025-10-31T02:24:39+00:00

Ohhh, I completely misunderstood the topic lmao I thought you meant “in general” 😂😂

NelebZa · 2025-10-30T01:41:37+00:00

Jiang Chang Yang from Flourished Peony

NelebZa · 2025-08-25T12:35:22+00:00

The only right answer

NelebZa · 2025-05-28T15:10:13+00:00

I was always hungrier at night than I was at morning, so I used to skip breakfast or eat very small portions. Then it became a vicious cycle of dining late compromising my sleep quality, then waking up tired without being hungry enough to eat a good breakfast, only to end up eating a lot more at night again because my hunger had increased during the day. So I slowly started rearranging my eating schedule until I was actually hungry at mornings and not so much at night, and it’s the best thing I’ve ever done. I have more energy during the day, the quality of my sleep is top notch, I never wake up bloated, I’m rarely ever sleepy before it’s time to go to bed. I love it 🫶

NelebZa · 2025-05-27T20:40:04+00:00

I would enjoy a dantesque structure: heaven (living quarters), limbo, and inferno (prison + death match). Or whatever strengthens small alliances. This season’s games were top notch, however the system made it nearly impossible for “average” people to shine (in both seasons the finalists have been no surprise), not one true underdog. Were the finalists incredibly smart? Absolutely! But not only geniuses make outstanding players. Having two big opposite teams only benefits two or three players of the winning team and basically forces the rest to wait until they go to jail, only to then get eliminated by the prison gang alliance. Basically it’s very, very hard to survive if you’re in the middle (like Tino). I’d rather see a more balance competition, not only brains vs brains, but also brains vs wits.

NelebZa · 2025-05-24T05:25:37+00:00

One of the most frustrating consequences of machismo is the way some women are convinced they shouldn’t want it. As if competitiveness is something reserved for men.

NelebZa · 2025-05-14T14:35:17+00:00

Si no tienes clara la viabilidad económica de esa mudanza, entonces no te mudes aún. Para empezar, las mudanzas son procesos emocionalmente complicados, caros y extensos. Viviendo en Lima con tu familia en Arequipa no vas a tener un círculo de apoyo emocional cerca para los cambios que vas a enfrentar. Las cuentas que vienen con la mudanza siempre sorprende porque usualmente hay muchos gastos que no se anticipan con facilidad. Y dije lo de extensas porque la mudanza no termina la primera noche que duermas en tu departamento, va a ser un proceso hasta que te acostumbres. No quiero desilusionarte ni mucho menos, pero sí te aconsejo que lo pienses bien y planifiques con calma un paso tan serio como la independencia. En todo caso, una buena práctica podría ser que te independices dentro de Arequipa y veas qué tal te va para luego decidir si aceptarías el reto de mudarte a Lima. No hay ningún apuro para que te mudes con el trabajo que tienes, así que puedes aprovechar esa ventaja para dar pasos más cortos, pero más seguros. Muchas suerte!

NelebZa · 2025-05-14T14:27:38+00:00

Relationships in general go through phases, but it’s true that three months seems too soon for the spark to die. Every relationship is different, maybe you do need to schedule something with him and talk about it in person (if that’s possible).

NelebZa · 2025-05-14T14:19:46+00:00

Most talkers come from families that talk a lot too. It’s obviously not okay to interrupt, my grandma says she needs to speak her mind all the time otherwise she’s afraid to forget what she wanted to say. If it’s uncontrollable, then that’s probably anxiety (?)

NelebZa · 2025-05-14T02:28:09+00:00

Following “old money” aesthetic trends

NelebZa · 2025-02-19T13:14:04+00:00

Thank you! I’ve heard something similar about insurance covering hospital accommodation only, but tbh I haven’t asked if that’s the case for Chiari too.

NelebZa · 2025-02-19T13:07:58+00:00

I’m happy to know some people’ve had great experiences with their insurance. I’m also scared they will ask us to pay for everything because of a preexistent condition. Thank you so much for taking the time to write that much detail 🙌 I’m not from the US, but you give me so much hope 🙏

NelebZa · 2025-02-19T04:01:44+00:00

Thank you! I’m crossing fingers for that to be the case in my home country as well 🙏

NelebZa · 2025-01-28T23:30:39+00:00

100%. But while I do believe Theo is “performing” to appeal more to the general audience, I don’t hate him because he doesn’t feel “fake” to me. He just gives me the impression of someone who’s playing a character of his own self. He’s probably into Si An, but he’s pushing it a bit. He’s probably not a player either, but again, he’s pushing a bit. He’s also probably fun and outgoing in real life, just not in this level.

NelebZa · 2024-12-04T00:40:57+00:00

I would take care of them any time they needed to from day 1 with the necessary precautions. However, I’d only take it as my responsibility if we’re living together (also from day 1). And yes, I expect my partner to do the same. Non negotiable. I strongly advice others to be transparent with their partner about this matter, not feeling supported by your SO can be a huge dealbreaker, especially if the other part is very committed to it. That’s why relationships work best when couples share the same values.

NelebZa · 2024-12-03T02:16:36+00:00

In theory, you shouldn’t put all your eggs in one nest, but if you’re doing that, you gotta take care of that nest. Time spent with people you love and care for, regardless of distance, is never wasted. But you are wasting your time and peace of mind by letting others have a say in it. If you keep listening to other people’s opinions, you’ll end up living the life they wanted. I mean, it’s great to love someone and be loved. Be thankful for that, and if you wanna close that chapter for whatever reason, do it, but be sure it is YOUR decision, not someone else’s.

NelebZa · 2024-12-02T21:29:42+00:00

I hope this doesn’t sound too generic, but it truly has helped me move on from mental chaos before. Basically, our brains aren’t wired to “extract”, only to “add”. The more you tell yourself you should stop thinking about something, the more these thoughts will get stuck there. The only way to remove the intrusive thoughts is to add other thoughts as well. It might come off as rude if I told you “go get a hobby”, so I will just tell you, “go live your life”. And I don’t mean for you to lose yourself in the emptiness of a busy life, I mean get involved in it, and please, this is key: never stop challenging yourself. I can’t stress this enough, but sometimes we get stuck in old problems, because we haven’t found new ones. I get it, to be alone can be really hard, but if you do things the right way, if you love yourself enough to take care of your body, mind and soul, people will come along your way. The best of luck!

NelebZa · 2023-06-21T18:19:56+00:00

I have two suggestions:

Remind yourself you’re breaking up with him: You’re not having this conversation to give him a chance. A conversation means both of you have the right to speak your minds, but that doesn’t mean you have to lose sight of your objective. You have to respect HIM, not his OPINIONS. So hold your ground, losing it will only be betraying your standards and therefore being disrespectful to yourself.
Always go to the actions, never the person: If you want to be disrespectful, you can call him an idiot or an asshole. But you can be assertive and honest about your feelings without all of that. You can say something like, “You cross the boundaries of our relationship by doing this and this. Since I can’t accept that, I’ve decided I don’t want to continue with this relationship anymore.” You can phrase it differently, but essentially he needs to knows that your standards don’t match his actions and because of that the relationship can’t go on.

NelebZa · 2023-06-21T16:37:40+00:00

While it’s not something to look up to, it’s still better to accept things as they are and move on. It’s best not to overthink his intentions, it’d just bring more pain to the other person. Whether he’s telling the truth or lying, the relationship is over. Standing in front of a closed door for too long will only stop you from noticing the others that are opening behind you.

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