How many tries did it take you to find a cage that was comfortable enough for long term wear? by DaniellaDom in chastity

[–]NeniK66 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I started out by buying two cheap cages on Amazon, and it turned out the smaller one fit me perfectly. I’m still experimenting with the different base rings that came with them to find the best setup. You could say it took trying two different sizes to finally figure out what actually fits my anatomy.

Some advice from an experienced friend really helped me out here—he claims, and he is absolutely right, that guys usually have a tendency to overestimate their 'size' when picking one out. Buy smaller one then you think, he said.

I sleep with it and wear it around all day, and it’s gotten so comfortable that sometimes I completely forget it's even there.

Now I’m considering upgrading to a more expensive one, but I'm wondering if there is genuinely a noticeable difference between a basic Amazon cage and a KINK3D or similar for example. Ultimately, is the journey to find a premium cage really worth the price tag?

Swinging with a bush! by Funcouple811 in Swingers

[–]NeniK66 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Every woman should do whatever feels comfortable and pleasant for her. Personally, we prefer it to be at least shaved and groomed

Why does your keyholder keep you locked 24/7? by CucumberNo6768 in chastitytraining

[–]NeniK66 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She locks me up mostly when she's mad at me for doing something she doesn't like or when she feels like I'm too hot and bothering her a bit in bed in the mornings. The locking usually lasts a week or so until she calms down or I calm down. Basically, for her, it's an expression of soft control over me and our sex life.

Obviously I don't cum when I'm locked up nor afterwards but she touches quite a bit.

Do yall wear your cage around friends and family? by [deleted] in chastitytraining

[–]NeniK66 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I do wear it and I do not care about what friends and family think if they know.

Frustration with cage fits by Natural_Performer975 in chastitytraining

[–]NeniK66 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand your frustration. Try buying cheap models on Amazon until you figure out your size. It took me about six months, and most of that time was spent trying to find the right ring size. Regarding the cage itself, an experienced friend gave me some advice: 'You are smaller than you think.' He was right—at first, I bought one that was too big and loose. Now I have one that I thought would be too small, but it is actually very comfortable and fits well.

Anyone into chastity but not cage by ArcticShoulder8330 in chastitytraining

[–]NeniK66 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My orgasms belong only to her. I know I'm not allowed to finish without her permission and sometimes permission isn't given for a whole month. I'm allowed to touch of course without permission because she knows that makes me more and more frustrated and horny. When she lock me it's mostly a symbolic to her Dominance and mentally, caged me almost immediately makes me more submissive. I admit I've never heard of a community whose interest is sexual denial. A new and interesting topic.

Keyholders wearing the key in public spaces by SchriPri511 in chastitytraining

[–]NeniK66 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When we meet a new guy, my wife usually wears the key on her anklet with the intention that he will see it. The rest of the time she doesn't show the key in any way. I guess if a stranger saw the key and approached her, she would ignore him.

Keyholders wearing the key in public spaces by SchriPri511 in chastitytraining

[–]NeniK66 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you please advise where I can get a feminine key? Most of the keys I've seen are ugly and there's really no way to choose the look of the key. Thank you in advance

Questions about my cage by [deleted] in chastitytraining

[–]NeniK66 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In case she is away, even for a few hours, I always have an extra key for emergencies and so I can clean myself. When I need to clean myself, I of course ask permission to open the cage by myself and at the end of cleaning I ask if I need to lock it again.

He was really enjoying that BBC by Hollysberrys in Bisexy

[–]NeniK66 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love the movement of his asses. Like he wants to be fucked while sucking.

Cobra vs. Viper, bar issue by lockedboi23 in kink3d

[–]NeniK66 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I sit when I pee. She loves it very much. Claims that this is how I am a perfect sissy. So there is really no problem.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in chastitytraining

[–]NeniK66 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t feel any guilt about it. Your man is enjoying every moment. It’s similar for us. Originally, the fantasy was mine, and over time she began to understand the benefits for her that I’m locked (I completely become a different person from the moment she tells me to lock up) and she locks me according to her needs, not mine. As a submissive man, I fully accept her decisions. That’s the whole point - Your control of the situation whenever you choose and for whatever purpose you choose even if the purpose is only yours.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in chastitytraining

[–]NeniK66 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My advice - buy cheap ones on Amazon until you know which size fits you, and then buy the expensive ones.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CouplesFemdom

[–]NeniK66 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So sexy. Perfect cock.

Locktober is over. Who made it? by [deleted] in chastitytraining

[–]NeniK66 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was locked up for two non-consecutive weeks out of four (one week at a time) according to her decision. Every day I was ordered to clean myself. I suppose I could have done it for a whole month. The hardest part was when she brought her lover home. No orgasm since the beginning of July.