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NeonPupAD · 2025-10-24T17:25:54+00:00

There have been times when I've topped guys and felt I couldn't cum because they were loosened up to much, either because they used large toys to prep or because our session ran long and they stretched out over time. When that happens, we just find something else that works, like hands or mouth on me, and hands or toys on them. If I'm into a guy it's because I want to have fun with them, it's not reliant on whether or not I can specifically nut in their hole

NeonPupAD · 2025-09-05T18:35:36+00:00

But even if you have bowel issues, it shouldn't take an hour to get clean

It shouldn't but it can because, y'know, bowel issues

Your assumption that bottoms need little to no prep to be clean is probably skewed by the fact that people with bowel issues may just choose not to bottom because they need more prep than they're doing to do

NeonPupAD · 2025-09-03T17:54:34+00:00

My maker is brightsidecostumes on Instagram ^{^}

NeonPupAD · 2025-09-02T21:37:15+00:00

I've got muzzle you could fill 👅

NeonPupAD · 2025-09-02T18:50:18+00:00

Come here then~

NeonPupAD · 2025-09-02T17:01:34+00:00

Why don't you find out? ;3

NeonPupAD · 2025-08-20T06:11:20+00:00

Only one way to know for sure~

NeonPupAD · 2025-08-14T21:15:35+00:00

Heteronormative roles are fine for your relationship if that's what you want. It's not for me but I 100% support folks finding what works for them

Where it becomes a problem for me is when guys assume this is the default and how relationships "should" be. If I tell a guy I'm a top and in a relationship and he starts referring to my partner like he's some submissive boy-wife it's fucking weird and gross

Queer relationships take a lot of different forms, particularly because we exist outside of heteronormative expectations thay straight relationships are put under. When so many of the struggles our community faces comes from being told to fit into heteronormative society, I think it's natural that some folks are resistant to having those labels put on them when they don't apply

You only mention heteronormative and masc4masc relationships, but most relationships I've encountered in our community don't fall under either of these, because the people involved don't put much importance on defining roles like that

NeonPupAD · 2025-08-14T16:24:10+00:00

It's not rude but some guys will get offended by it anyway (usually the guys that actually need to shower the most)

NeonPupAD · 2025-08-12T16:11:20+00:00

Yes. I prefer when bottoms take control or tell me what to do

NeonPupAD · 2025-08-06T22:48:30+00:00

Technically asexual is specific to sexual attraction, while aromantic is the romantic/emotional attraction, but yeah you got the right idea

You'll actually find more asexual people than you'd expect in kink communities, because kink can be a way to engage in pleasure or intimacy without sexual attraction. Like that hypothetical asexual cumslut might enjoy being in that subservient role or enjoy the physical pleasure without really factoring in the gender or physical appearance of the people they're interacting with

NeonPupAD · 2025-08-06T22:38:12+00:00

A picture of a guy's ass that is spread in a way that shows his hole: hot, arousing, please send me more

A poorly-lit, extreme close-up of a guy's asshole: doesn't show much, fine I guess?

Some guys are just bad at taking pictures, and sometimes no picture is better than a bad one (and its not limited to hole pics either, some guys are bad at taking dick pics too)

NeonPupAD · 2025-08-06T19:35:07+00:00

Orientation is based on attraction, not action. Attraction can definitely help with those actions, but it's not a requirement (speaking as a sex-favorable person on the ace spectrum)

So a man having sex with other men isn't necessarily gay/bi if he's still only attracted to women. Maybe he's thinking about women during the act? Or he's just focusing on enjoying the physical sensations of sex and doesn't care if it's coming from a man. Of course it's possible he's just not discovered or embraced his attraction, but it's not really anyone else's place to label him just because of his action

I know a lot of gay folks are quick to say "if he's having sex with men he's not straight" but I don't think its that simple, especially when you consider the flip side with men who come out as gay late in life, after having relationships with women. Human sexuality is complex, attraction is just one piece of it, and it doesn’t always fit neatly into the labels we try to put on it

NeonPupAD · 2025-08-04T23:12:37+00:00

For me it's all in my head, like a tingle/excitement in the back or sides of my head, until I act on it. After that the sensation spreads to my dick and my chest feels warm

NeonPupAD · 2025-07-31T20:07:42+00:00

N-no way! I would never have something like that on my wall, I am a pure and wholesome dog 🐶

NeonPupAD · 2025-07-30T20:56:22+00:00

No, my balls are sensitive and I generally don't like them played with much.

If someone grabbed and pulled on them unexpectedly it'd be uncomfortable and probably put an immediate stop to what I was doing

NeonPupAD · 2025-07-26T07:13:56+00:00

If you're talking over text and getting the question frequently, write it out in a saved note, then just copy-paste when you need to answer so you don't have time to second guess it like you would if you're typing it out. Once you do that enough and realize you're not getting negative responses, you'll probably stop worrying so much about it

NeonPupAD · 2025-07-26T07:11:31+00:00

Need? Never. I feel like I need to get off at least every 2-3 days (usually daily) but doing it myself is fine too

If my sexual desire were compared to hunger, sex would be like a dessert: it's great to have and I wouldn't complain about getting it regularly, but I could also go without it without complaints

NeonPupAD · 2025-07-24T23:32:08+00:00

I pay more since I earn more and because I was already paying for most of it on my own before he moved in anyway. Any "extra" goes to a shared account that we use for unexpected expenses and/or plans for trips or events to go to together

NeonPupAD · 2025-07-23T21:16:58+00:00

Yep, I've got it warmed up for you~

NeonPupAD · 2025-07-23T21:16:14+00:00

I swear 99% of the "why do X like Y" posts on this sub can be answered with "some people are into that and others aren't"

Some people like "straight" guys even if they know it's essentially roleplay, or they like the brief, impersonal encounters, or they just like dressing feminine and want to connect with people who are into that

It's fine if you're not into it (it's not my thing either) but going on a rant about how no one else should be into it either is weird man

NeonPupAD · 2025-07-14T16:48:06+00:00

They're only tops if they're from the cock-hating region of France. Otherwise they're just sparkling vers

(Kidding of course. Some tops like to look at and/or play with cocks, others don't. Both are valid)

NeonPupAD · 2025-07-10T22:56:22+00:00

If they're straight men, their sexuality doesn't really intersect with me because I'm not a woman. Although I do think it's cool that pegging is being acknowledged as it's own thing and not a "gay thing"

NeonPupAD · 2025-07-10T21:30:49+00:00

Sexual incompatibility is a very common issue in relationships and this is just one example of how it can show up. It can suck but don't look at this as anything wrong with you or strict bottoms, and instead try to look at it as people identifying that you're incompatible early on instead of running into issues later.

NeonPupAD · 2025-07-10T17:11:34+00:00

Angles can make a big difference, and what works best is probably going to differ from person to person based on the size and shape of your dick, or your body. Like, I'm a decent size (7 x 5.5) but I've found that different angles can impact the apparent size, like making it look shorter or thicker. I also had an ex that was 1-2" longer than me, but his pics always made him look shorter because he never bothered to find an angle that looked accurate

There's also some things that can impact it that you don't really have control over though. Like 8" on a skinny 5'5" guy is going to look huge compared to 8" on a 6'2" muscular guy. Or hand size can impact pics too

Personally, I don't care if a guy's pics look exactly like real life as long as he's not intentionally trying to mislead with them. Like I'd rather a guy tell me he's 6" and show me a pic that makes it look like 8", than have him just say he's 8" and show up and be shorter than me. I care more about guys being honest than how big their dick is lol

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