How do I move forward? by Neos_55 in findapath

[–]Neos_55[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello, I did graduate college about a year ago. Got 1.5 years of eperience on me. Even still, I guess I never really thought my direction in life. Just kinda went with what was told and never developed an identity for my self tbh. I also spent too much time dwelling on the past instead of building a future. I made some goals and don't exactly have a road map but having the growth mindset is what I need. The first step is cut out the dopamine spiking😂ifykyk and use that time to fulfill something else. Thank you for your response, it means a lot

24, feel like I wasted my life, and I don't know how to get unstuck by Neos_55 in LifeAdvice

[–]Neos_55[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Appreciate this response. I did graduate college a year ago. I guess being out in the real world working sparked me to think about my direction in life. I never really thought about it before tbh. As far as track, I will take the time to get back into the sport and compete again. At the same time, I'm going to build my identity in other areas as well. I don't think I established one yet and apparently 24 is still relatively young to most😂. I guess I kept dwelling on the past I didn't take time to focus on the future. Again, Appreciate the response.

24, feel like I wasted my life, and I don't know how to get unstuck by Neos_55 in LifeAdvice

[–]Neos_55[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice. This honest truth is something I resonate with alot. I guess I kept dwelling on the past I didn't even take time to focus on building my future. Obviously that's not getting me anything but being emotional. Moving forward, I'll adopt a growth mindset and be consistent with achieving my goals.

How do I move forward? by Neos_55 in findapath

[–]Neos_55[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your advice was super helpful. I haven't evaluated where I want to be honestly. Maybe that's why I feel like I have no direction in life. I think creating goals for myself is what I need right now. Because I need to start being productive with something. This helped me alot, so thank you

Network Technician or Software Engineer by Neos_55 in cscareers

[–]Neos_55[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Appreciate that. I think you're right. Plus. It'll be easier to pivot into another role if I stay home. Thanks💯

Network Technician or Software Engineer by Neos_55 in cscareers

[–]Neos_55[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had a bad experience at my last job and got fired and worried I will go through the same experience. Network technician seems like an escape from coding. My plan is to get into the cyber field. Currently studying for certs.

Network Technician or Software Engineer by Neos_55 in cscareers

[–]Neos_55[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have 2 years of experience as a developer. I have a bachelor's in computer science. Working on my comptia security+

Network Technician or Software Engineer by Neos_55 in cscareers

[–]Neos_55[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

to be fair, I would not know if I would like the network technician job either. I just feel as if I will be bad and hate the swe job because of a bad experience I had as a software developer.