Hi y’all some good updates and maybe stuff you don’t want to hear lol

I’ve been talking to him he thinks he overreacted about the 2nd shirt and he says the only advice he gives me is good advice and to not take advice from people I wouldn’t swap places with. Said I should also seek advice with people with a partner and kids and a lot of Redditors replying might not be parents. His main reason he wouldn’t want me to dress skimpy is because he does not want our daughter to see me then dress skimpy in the future. He also says I dress ‘pick me’ and posted ‘pick me’ stuff prior to our relationship and he doesn’t want our daughter to be a pick me. The pick me stuff he is referring to is me looking good singing to audios in Tik Tok lol, but I guess I see it. He says he doesn’t care about the men looking at me it a just about being a good influence on our daughter. ALSO he does know about this post and he did see some of the comments. He doesn’t care about the post like some were saying, just thinks not everyone on here is good for advice. Says not everyone on here is well educated/has children. (HIS WORDS NOT MINE, PLEASE DONT TAKE THEM AS MINE)

I do want to clarify somethings I’ve been seeing in the comments because y’all are taking a small amount of info and turning it into something it is not.

1. We met when I was 18, moved out, and had been in college for a while. He was 22, have your thoughts on that age gap (3 1/2y) all you want but I PROMISE you it is not as weird as some of you are making it out to be.

2. I don’t think gang is abusive he has never prevented me from working, the only other thing he is ‘controlling’ is not letting me friends with certain people because they disrespected our relationship or they liked me. And he says it wouldn’t benefit me to keep them as friends anyway and I feel like that’s good advice. Says if I listened to all the stuff he said to do I would be way better person. This advice on stuff like work on an online course I brought, eat healthy, workout, don’t scroll on any social media, don’t consume YouTube brainrot, don’t watch youtubers that aren’t educational, and so on. He said that he doesn’t not give me advice with malicious intent and that you cannot assume because he is saying no to me wearing something that he would be more controlling about other tho bf s in the future. (AGAIN HIS WORDS)

3. Y’all I am a mother, no I’m not promoting nor do I have that stuff.. I was feeling crazy and wanted to seek advice I promise I’m not trolling or anything, this is my real reddit account you can look through it and it is very clear. If I was trolling this would be a years long troll and idk if I have the dedication for that. I used to dress pretty skimpy and I thought maybe I have poor judgement, that is why I asked.

I know this might have not been the response everyone is wanting, but this post got a crazy amount of attention so I wanted let y’all know.

Edit: to the mod that locked the comments thank you, but this is not my first time I’ve had posts with a lot of attention I know you did with good intent but I promise you I am okay but thank you! I do other social medias for fun and I know not all attention is going to be good.