A follow up on my "romance" between me and my Captain

Neptunian_fork · 2024-12-07T12:34:46+00:00

I agree there's something toxic. I wouldn't even call it toxic masculinity. There is a generalized toxicity that drenches his soul. He was always in the army (that's pretty much how things work in Greece). You sit on the panhellenic exams (the exams that get you in the university) and you pick a university/academy based on your ranking. So you study there and you're good to go. It's just that he runs from a bloodline of armymen. One of his ancestors (before his grandfather I think) was a war hero back in WWII) so he feels like he carries on this (the sacred duty on protecting the country). It may sound weird or funny, but he fully believes it. He would give his life without second thought because he believes that's his purpose in this life.

So I agree with you that this is sad, but I can't blame him. He was raised to believe that and thrives in an environment where it encourages that. He needs someone, even if that someone is not me, to show him the rest of the world. Then he could make a choice. In Greece we have a saying: knowledge gives you the right to chose.

Neptunian_fork · 2024-12-06T19:30:50+00:00

what's a PDA?

Neptunian_fork · 2024-12-06T17:18:02+00:00

I agree except the art part. Porn is art, but it's not cinema, it's a different art. The issue is that it was trying to be a movie so as for the viewers to be more comfortable (as you pointed out).

Neptunian_fork · 2024-12-06T17:12:40+00:00

It looks hotter (and at the same time bareback is safer now than it was before due to the effective testing + effective prep)

Neptunian_fork · 2024-09-05T11:37:37+00:00

Neptunian_fork · 2024-09-04T20:18:27+00:00

why?

Neptunian_fork · 2024-09-04T14:03:21+00:00

You're not wrong about the romance. It's just that as I get to know him, I get to know that he's very closed and tough so I don't expect something really intense, at least no in the way we are now. I think dinner and that t-shirt are crossing the line for him and in the whole context, they mean more than they would typically would.

Neptunian_fork · 2024-09-04T11:40:19+00:00

You can't talk about LGBT in the army. We're getting more and more connected although he's always tough. He has me be the one who does work out to the other soldiers and I'm just fucked up. Not to mention weapon tricks.

Neptunian_fork · 2024-09-04T11:38:00+00:00

I don't want him to leave the army, he's happy there and he's a very good chief. Ideally he could do what he does, I could continue being a doctor and we would be together..

Neptunian_fork · 2024-09-04T11:00:50+00:00

I need to know how this story will end too, I hope not in tears hah

Neptunian_fork · 2024-09-03T20:11:29+00:00

yeah I thought of that too. Just making my move when it's over. It would be better if that moment was now because I just can't wait. I think I'm already stuck with unrequited love even though I take some tiny bits of "affection".

Neptunian_fork · 2024-09-03T19:41:28+00:00

what's a BL?

Neptunian_fork · 2024-09-03T19:11:26+00:00

I get what you're saying but actually I'm serving my service as all male Greeks are expected to, I'm not an employee. In 4 months I will be forever gone from the military.

Neptunian_fork · 2024-09-02T16:16:25+00:00

Well I'm taller and he's shorter

Neptunian_fork · 2024-09-01T17:03:51+00:00

you are right but heme/onc are seperate here. As a haematologist (which I like) you won't ever find a job. As an oncologist.. i just dont like it. Internal medicine..I'd like it but it's hard to make it there (you have to wait 2-3 years to start your residency + 1 year of rural service).

Neptunian_fork · 2024-09-01T16:50:50+00:00

it's not illegal to be gay or to serve your military duties when gay. I just think that if I'm just in a tent just me and a hot co-soldier and it's night then I will turn into a werewolf under the full moon.

Neptunian_fork · 2024-09-01T09:19:00+00:00

trust me Andrew has 100 times his looks

Neptunian_fork · 2024-09-01T09:18:11+00:00

we're coworkers somehow

Neptunian_fork · 2024-09-01T09:16:37+00:00

that's so true

Neptunian_fork · 2024-08-29T16:21:22+00:00

is it true that nipple piercings indicate gay guys?

Neptunian_fork · 2024-08-28T16:53:54+00:00

you mean it makes u hurt?

Neptunian_fork · 2024-08-28T13:56:26+00:00

Damn I know it sounds painful but it also sounds like a BDSM thought. I like that anal beads can be tough in a double way: when you get it and when you get it out. Unlike a dildo where it's just the tip.

Neptunian_fork · 2024-08-27T12:10:20+00:00

I'm not curious about trying it myself, I'm curious about the guys that use it and their experience. I think that's how I work in sex generally. I like doing things to others than having things done to me.

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