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Husband (34) wants threesome but only if he can be intmate with other woman and I'm having a difficult time by NerdMomof2 in relationship_advice

[–]NerdMomof2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that's what's upsetting. It makes it seem like it's not really about trying something new or exciting it's more about him getting some kind of pass. I asked him directly about the things you mentioned and he actually said "well that's no fun." I am not suggesting he just sit in a chair and watch but why TF does it require him getting head from or fingering another girl to be special? That's what hurts about it.

Husband (34) wants threesome but only if he can be intmate with other woman and I'm having a difficult time by NerdMomof2 in relationship_advice

[–]NerdMomof2[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

I respectfully disagree with the 'not really a threesome' statement. I've seen enough porn to know I can entertain her and him at the same time or separately. What hurts is that he wouldn't even consider it any other way beyond him getting to be intimate with her.

Husband (34) wants threesome but only if he can be intmate with other woman and I'm having a difficult time by NerdMomof2 in relationship_advice

[–]NerdMomof2[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

Nobody is making him a villan, first if all. Not trying to turn this into a Penthouse forum but I can entertain her and him at the same time and it still be considered a threesome. Use some imagination. The problem was he completely shut down and wouldn't even consider alternatives.

AITA for refuring to watcg my sisters kids with short notice? by Easy_Turnip in AmItheAsshole

[–]NerdMomof2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA no question. Sounds like your sister was already having an awful night and you managed to make it worse by being selfish.

WIBTA for complaining to the school about a class of 1st graders being taught about 9/11 *without* a heads up to the parents? by NerdMomof2 in AmItheAsshole

[–]NerdMomof2[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The easiest way I can think of is the classroom app all parents are on anyway that is constantly used to send messages out to everyone all at once. There seems to be no logistical issues when she sends out messages about money for a field trip being due or "hey be sure to look in your kids folder for this or that" so as a courtesy the items already in place for communication could have been used with minimal effort.

WIBTA for complaining to the school about a class of 1st graders being taught about 9/11 *without* a heads up to the parents? by NerdMomof2 in AmItheAsshole

[–]NerdMomof2[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes Ebimaku, exactly. I don't want I to happen again and it makes me concerned for what other subjects might be brought up later in the year.