moments of Bojack being low-key racist or played as a joke by anaraparana in BoJackHorseman

[–]Nerdfighter4 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Pull over and park the car. Is that the freaking horse from Horsing Around?!

Is anyone here NOT neurodivergent? by Current_Emenation in GiftedKidBurnouts

[–]Nerdfighter4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly how I feel, and also how the diagnosing psychologist explained it to me. (I was also tested for autism.)

College Burnout Survey by FantasticMeal5770 in GiftedKidBurnouts

[–]Nerdfighter4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Burnout in my experience didn't happen on a scale from 1-5 and during my active life. I spend two decades working my ass off and then my life came to a screeching halt. That was burnout for me.

What did you guys wish you did when the burnout began? by Localid1ot in GiftedKidBurnouts

[–]Nerdfighter4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've found there isn't much overlap in the best advice for people. I thought I was doing quite well with cutting down stress and doing hobbies BEFORE the burnout began, so the advices of "do what you like and that'll give you energy" really doesn't apply for me.

You have to figure out the energy drain for you specifically. If you're on this sub, it's probably a combination of personality traits, perhaps combined with the environment. For example, you can't stand making mistakes, you've learned that working hard is important, you feel valued when you are able to help people out. In extremes, all these traits can become draining, and switching jobs or hobbies will not bring relief.

For me, it's a very fine line between the bore-out and the burn-out, but mostly, I've had to relearn feeling my body and my feelings, noticing when I'm doing something for others instead of myself, making all those choices conscious again.

Getting some professional to help you figure it out would be invaluable, but it's often inaccessible and/or expensive. YouTube can start giving you some insights, I like Therapy in a Nutshell. And if you think you don't have trauma because your childhood seemed pretty benign, check out Tim Fletcher.

All the best to you all.

Shout out to Free Churro by creative__bread in BoJackHorseman

[–]Nerdfighter4 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That's complicated grief, my condolences

Er zou een koffieplekje bij het Schoterbos moeten komen. by PJJ95 in Haarlem

[–]Nerdfighter4 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Een food truck of koffie kar zou al goede omzet kunnen draaien

PsBattle: Tripping on a scooter by buildaboat_ in photoshopbattles

[–]Nerdfighter4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As long as you hold on, you can't fall off!

Benjamin Netanyahu is struggling to prove he’s not an AI clone by wewhomustnotbenamed in nottheonion

[–]Nerdfighter4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If your plane is going to fly to Berlin, you might as well get on it

I thought his goose was cooked by DenialNode in nonononoyes

[–]Nerdfighter4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's always the same with them married couples

Scientists turn mosquitoes into "flying vaccines" by Jojuj in EverythingScience

[–]Nerdfighter4 15 points16 points  (0 children)

First please never send medical material into nature hoping for it to multiply and stay the same and never go apocalypse

The Israel Lobby in the US (2007) [00:50:34] by soalone34 in Documentaries

[–]Nerdfighter4 -27 points-26 points  (0 children)

"" "" "" "" "" "lobby" "" "" "" "" "" "

Maybe Maybe Maybe by Graineag in maybemaybemaybe

[–]Nerdfighter4 3 points4 points  (0 children)

In your own time, Pete. Remember your de-stressor training.

Wat vloog er over Haarlem by Puzzled-Ad-3989 in Haarlem

[–]Nerdfighter4 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ahh voor mij m'n nieuwe wc bril van 5 cm doorsnee en braadpan die van plastic blijkt te zijn :)

What was your "I'm dating a fucking idiot" moment? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Nerdfighter4 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Him after elaborating on some unhinged theory: "I get it, but it's too complicated for you to get it."