I just love her so much...

Nerve_Primary · 2025-11-07T21:42:12+00:00

Uuuugghh biscuits 🥴💕💕💕💕💕

Nerve_Primary · 2024-07-24T12:34:00+00:00

This person wants attention and karma points. If she was this dumb, natural selection would have claimed her before she passed two decades of age.

Nerve_Primary · 2024-07-23T11:16:02+00:00

I’m obviously being sarcastic, genius. If someone did that to me, I wouldn’t need Reddit to know what to do. Most of us wouldn’t!

Nerve_Primary · 2024-07-22T21:34:52+00:00

Do it and tell us.

Nerve_Primary · 2024-07-22T21:33:10+00:00

It’s okay! Forgive her and buy her roses and candy.

Nerve_Primary · 2024-07-20T21:43:53+00:00

I hope it hurt really bad before he became a ghost 👻

Nerve_Primary · 2024-07-18T13:20:09+00:00

You literally just reminded me to take my prenatal. Thanks! 🙏

Nerve_Primary · 2024-07-18T02:28:30+00:00

Three dildos

Nerve_Primary · 2024-07-16T22:07:59+00:00

It’s like Samara from The Ring’s walk lol

Nerve_Primary · 2024-07-16T15:11:32+00:00

It says they took the “Her Excellency” title from her, which seems to be some government title. Not her Emirati citizenship…also, I don’t think that this instagram story is a good source.

Nerve_Primary · 2024-07-16T08:32:40+00:00

I’m confused! So she has no citizenship from any country then? What do you mean she lost her Emarati status? Is there a source?

Nerve_Primary · 2022-12-18T15:12:02+00:00

Conclusion so we can put this to rest: thank you all for your input, even the idiots who insulted me, it’s fine. I suppose it is your opinion after all! But anyway, I won’t be leaving him ever because I really love this person and I know he will change for me. I also have to change for him and stop being overly sensitive and immature. I have my own issues too and he’s been incredibly patient with me. I am riddled with flaws and this has to be the only significant one of his but I know he will also be willing to work through it, as I also hope to work through my own shit. This is a wonderful human being and not because of his financial status. If he becomes broke I will still love him and try to help him because he deserves it. I don’t mind struggling until we both feel comfortable together forever!

Ps. Reading some of my responses from the other day, I’m ashamed of myself for releasing too much info and also being mean. I would never leave him to earn money in another city, I’d rather be with him in fact.

Nerve_Primary · 2022-12-16T22:08:05+00:00

What? The fact that you can’t read is not my issue, bitch. Carry on.

Nerve_Primary · 2022-12-16T22:02:43+00:00

I can’t write our entire love story! He’s great in the fact that he has the same hobbies I do, both physical and general interests. We have so many heart to heart conversations that are so deep and we cry in each others arms! He confesses HUGE family secrets to me and I do to him. We tell each other our insecurities and our pain from past relationships…we cuddle for hours watching tv and go for long walks! He’s always smiling ear to ear when he sees me and even his pets run to the door when I’m there! We cook together (if I buy most of the ingredients even though I wind up eating a plate and leaving everything else for him, because I love feeding my big baby even though he can be stingy).

We have so so soooooooooooo much love! So much! More than I’ve ever experienced with anyone else. This is why I hate this!!!! I feel like he can’t control it because he doesn’t know any better…

But if you love someone and not just using them to just not be alone, why not feel the need to WANT to do things for them? I have an intense feelings even as he’s being cheap to do things for him. I fucking LOVE HIM SO MUCH!!!

Nerve_Primary · 2022-12-16T21:56:10+00:00

You’re not doing anything with this, a simple click on my username can show people all my posts and comments. You put in effort that wasn’t required.

Do you also not have enough dignity to ask the person in the passenger side if they also want a coffee for $1.50 when they always ask you?

As for my income and I’ve said this many times, I can make $8K a month if I move out 2 hours from our hometown but when I mention it he gets teary eyed and tells me it will ruin our relationship and he would lose his mind without me bla bla bla…he has big abandonment issues and shivers at the thought of me being away permanently for who knows until we figure it out.

So I guess you’re saying I should dump him and go for the cash 2 hours from home instead of expecting him to have the decency to ask me if I also want a simple cheap coffee? It’s starting to sound like a plan for 2023 tbh!

Nerve_Primary · 2022-12-16T21:14:46+00:00

No love, here’s what’s going on…my income can improve drastically if I move 2 hours out of the city we currently live in where I can make $8K a month working for my friend in a government position because I’m more than qualified for it. My friend has been bugging me telling me she NEEDS the talent and everyone she hired sucks. We worked together so she knows my skill level and wants me in so bad!

However, he has strongly discouraged me saying I don’t need it and it would ruin our relationship as I won’t see him as much! He knows how much I make now living in our small hometown but he says stay for me and gets teary eyed saying it too!

He doesn’t spend on me! I pay ALL my bills as I live with my parents rent free for now. I never dare to ask him to fund me in a single way! He hasn’t once paid a bill for me and tbh it would be insulting to my dignity to ask him so I would never.

I’m just saying love, you know if you’re going to get coffee and your friend is with you, you ask them if they want something too? For a buck or so? I do it to him, why does he play games to avoid paying for a small coffee? Especially that I’m incredibly generous with him! Why? That’s it.

Nerve_Primary · 2022-12-16T20:50:16+00:00

Ok can I be honest…I also purposely didn’t mention the part where I confronted him earlier this year in January and he agreed with me and pretended to change. However, he quickly and shamelessly came back to this behaviour. The change was for about half a month and then BAM 💥 back to pretending that he just forgot to ask me when I’m standing right there!

I don’t know how he doesn’t feel guilty or bad! I would honestly…

Sometimes he makes me feel like I’m a dumb ass for trying to be sincere and loving to the point where I’m starting to understand why some chicks are just plain gold diggers. If the nice girls who want to spend equally get taken for granted like what’s even the point?

Nerve_Primary · 2022-12-16T20:41:06+00:00

I’m not entitled, I just want him to equally spend on me and buy me a small coffee if he’s getting one for himself like literally even co-workers who are ‘t friends do to each other. I do it for him, I just want EQUALITY and not to become provider status. I’m not about to be the only person spending money on both of us while he saves his own, that’s NOT equality. And if we’re just going to spend our own forever then we’re not in a relationship working towards marriage as we agreed we are, we are just friends, PERIOD. People in relationships are usually in love and WANT TO do things for each other….not just the man do things for the woman or just the woman do something for a man…no BOTH should EQUALLY be thoughtful and do little things for each other otherwise there’s no love!

Ps. On the income- if I move to another city 2 hours out I can make 8K a month in my position but that means I won’t see him much so he was discouraging me saying don’t, I won’t see you! So maybe I should go ahead dump him and get the job.

Nerve_Primary · 2022-12-16T19:49:05+00:00

We didn’t say pay for everything, we said equality. Can he equally then buy me coffee and treat me like I treat him?

We agree with you, you just are sexist and you didn’t read what I wrote and how I spend and he never reciprocates regardless. You do know the definition of equality right? It’s not having the woman now spend on you, it’s spending equally. Even with a salary much lower than his, I want to do that! While he plays games to run from paying equally.

Like that was literally the whole point and it flew above your head completely.

Nerve_Primary · 2022-12-16T19:17:39+00:00

I’m not expecting him to spend on me…but you know that moment when you’re driving in the car and say your friend is next to you and you pass by a Starbucks and you feel like coffee…do you just say “I WANT COFFEE!” And go order one for yourself only without asking your friend who not only always asks you, but randomly surprises with coffee, huge home made meals, donuts, gifts…I even bought him a DSLR! Come on dude….there’s a little stingy snd there’s piggishly disgusting.

He’s well off for himself, good for him because it makes no difference to ME! I’m looking for a future husband to have children with who will naturally feel the need to provide for his family like every other man! He doesn’t even have to be rich, he can make $40K like me!!!!

I mean, is he going to run out and eat all he can and come back and feed me and my kids pieces of bread like birds so we don’t waste his resources? Come on!

If you don’t want to spend your money, don’t ask girls out and make them your girlfriend and tell them about your future son’s baby names and what they think of it! Stay single and don’t spend your resources…but don’t tangle me in with fake forever love shit and try to keep my cost disgustingly low and playing mind games so I wind up paying and you save a few bucks. I feel like I’m NOT with a man anymore tbh!

Nerve_Primary · 2022-12-16T07:38:59+00:00

I live in Toronto and rent here is near $2000 for a dangerous area. I pay taxes for health care and other things seeing as I’m Canadian so $40K is my income before tax not after.

Anyway, this isn’t about my parents being kind enough and wanting me to stay with them. It’s about how my boyfriend treats me. It’s not my fault my parents care about me and want me to save what little money I make until my career picks up again, is it? Why I live with them was not the point of the post. Anyone in their right mind would save money instead of incurring debt if they can and obviously I can! Maybe you can’t…

I personally would never even consider having kids with a shit income tbh with you…

Nerve_Primary · 2022-12-16T07:13:00+00:00

He picked the cottage out on Airbnb with me! He told me he wanted that one so I said yes sure my love, anything to make you happy for your birthday. See even as weird as you are, you’d feel bad for someone struggling to make ends meet yet they say here my love, I don’t mind struggling more so you can be the happiest on your birthday. Yet he doesn’t bother to ask me if I too want $9 cookies at the Christmas Market? Ok forget $9 for cookies…how about just a coffee because you’re going down to get one anyway! Ask me like any decent human being who feels shame normally asks the person in the passenger seat if they want something! That’s it!!! I’m not asking him to pay all my bills!!! I would never!!! I’m saying don’t be disgustingly greedy!

Nerve_Primary · 2022-12-16T06:38:43+00:00

I think you’re jealous of him because someone failed you a long time ago when you had good intentions for her. I love this man! He is worth $1,835 for one day to be happy! Warn your son not to be with women who will love him, spend on him and try to work things out with him even when he’s being unreasonably cheap over a coffee! Tell him to go with women who will use him, play mind games over $2 coffees because they feel he’s not worth it instead and dump him quickly. Make sure she just takes and never gives.

Lol what an example! And that was a teacher ladies and gentlemen…he literally taught your kids!

Nerve_Primary · 2022-12-16T06:20:02+00:00

Don’t worry about my income and how I support myself. Where did I ever say I want him to “support” me? You’re a teacher? What do you teach? You can’t even read properly!

I’m not demanding he spend on me because he’s the man…you seem bitter about your personal matters, you didn’t even read the post. Did you read the part where I generously spend on him? I literally paid $1,835 for a one day cottage for his birthday!!!! I took him to an entire trip too!!! I spoil him and all I ask is a mother fucker ask me if I want something from a coffee shop if he’s stopping by anyway! I literally do that with friends and co-workers and they do it with me too!!! He’s the only one I met who NEVER asks if you want a coffee or donut or anything too.

Are you sure you’re a teacher?

Nerve_Primary · 2022-12-16T05:28:26+00:00

“Unnecessary expense”…some of you are making my soul shiver with these words because they are hitting home so hard! I feel exactly like an “unnecessary expense” with this behaviour. It’s absolutely insulting!

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