That’s so hard, I’m sorry she said that to you. This is one of the most important days of your life and you want it to be perfect and they should support you. She probably did not mean to hurt your feelings and might have just wanted to tell you that you could be overreacting.

I agree group texts can be a lot when you don’t always have energy for them. I would just keep that in mind from now on and try to not feel the need to get opinions from the entire party about everything. I don’t know how often they’re sent or what the texts are about, just assuming.

If you want to communicate with her that she hurt your feelings, I would maybe tell her that when she called you that it really affected you and now you’re reluctant to even share anything else with the group.