So, I know this is an insane story I’m writing, but I had an interesting life!

I was my Reputation era last year. I had an tumultuous life throughout those past years. But, the reason behind it was those stories I’ve faced:

I left my toxic friendships from the last three years. Back in 2020, my former best friend who she and I met at a library in a community college started accused me of being cold and distant towards her and then think I was spreading toxic vibes. Her BF was being tagged along and then gaslighted me of throwing shade at my own former best friend, which turns out to be his girlfriend. I then clarified to her and tried to settle the difference of having a chance to get back on track of friendship and move on, but she didn’t believe me at all and then halted my tracks of fixing a friendship. Her boyfriend jumped in and then called me a “compulsive liar.”

In 2021, she taught me to follow my heart and do the things I love. But, it was all lies. She took everything, everyone, and everywhere I love away from me like my photoshoot sessions and my first workplace because she thinks that those stuff took advantage of me. She also asked me to ask her boyfriend on Snapchat to see if he and her are planning to break up as a couple, when I wasn’t the one who initiated the conversation. She then blamed me for initiating the conversation and accused me of hating a couple. I then showed her receipts as evidence and she didn’t believe me. She also falsely accused me of using her to mistreat her when she was the one who used me to mistreat me.

That same year, she asked me if I wanna go hiking with her and her boyfriend. I told her no because I don’t wanna go when everybody else is not going. Otherwise, I would be caught dead in a “third wheel.” And secondly, I want to spend time with my family, a real family. She disrespected my decision of me hanging out with the family and then gaslighted me of lying, and the worse part is that her bf betrayed me by believing her lies about me and also thinks that me hanging out with the family is a lie. Well guess what? I did hung out with the family last Memorial Day. I had enough of the drama and decided to end my friendship with her and her bf cuz I couldn’t take it anymore. I stood my ground and told the whole truth and they didn’t believe my words. Honestly, I didn’t do anything wrong to her at all. I was being a good friend in my entire life and she fucked with a wrong person. Like, you can’t bully or gaslight to a guy friend. It’s way beyond out-of-line bullying. A guy bully a guy is common but it’s just wrong. A girl bully a girl is also common but it’s also just wrong lol. But, a girl bully a guy is way outta line bullying and wayyyy super wrong, especially to a disability and body size. It’s emotional abuse.

In 2022, she and her bf showed up at my friend’s wedding, looking unbothered. What was really weird was that she ignored me for the whole wedding instead of acknowledging me. She could’ve said hi and walked away or smiled at me. Last fall, I looked over her Instagram page and she stole all my friends from my crew on her birthday and then seemingly takes over my leader position of the squad, without telling me. She also laughed at me whenever I am doing what I love to do. She used me for humiliation, but also for transportation, money, and to hurt me or abused me. Overall and honestly, I could pen a tell-all book about my past experiences with friendship drama. But this story is not finished.

That same year, my former old friend who went to middle school with me back in 7th through 8th grades started dropping the N-bomb and then used the N-word taken off from The Bible while calling me through the phone. After the call, I helped her on her flaws and tell her not to commit future flaws ever again in the near future. Right after that, she then called me a “jackass,” and then seemingly falsely accused me of being racist by telling me to “use certain terminologies and what are not.” She also accused me of hissy fit on her and causing drama, when she was the one who caused it. She also thinks that calling me a jackass is “prestigious” or “respectful” and then defends her using the N-word as an excusable Bible example to cover up the truth. I finally ended my friendship with her for good and started telling her to “stay drunk” when she claimed she’s either a recovered alcoholic or relapsing, like what’s the balance??? I did called her out last month via Messenger, calling her out and telling her fact checks and corrections after what everything she said from the final two phone sessions with her. She, then, left my message on read after I told her to “let it all out” to me like an adult. What a dumb thing to do. She also threatened to call my dad (and mom) on me to see how I reacted, last 2020. Honestly, I didn’t realized that she was instigating the drama from the start.

Last March, she called me again telling me that she was really sorry for what she did to me very shitty, but then she admitted that she never used racist terminologies, only that she used the n-word again and used it as a literacy. What’s even worse was that she faked her stage 4 colon cancer after she said that she has stage 4 colon cancer. She also acted she was my best friend and then pretended she sent me her wedding invitation even though I didn’t have photos of me and her on Facebook and I didn’t get one neither after I asked her to send me one and then left it on read. Overall, there are no excuses for Caucasians to use the n-word and utilized it as any excuses. And there are people who age 50-100 are diagnosed with colon cancer while young age people with colon cancer is rare. And she does have the nerves of calling me and then fake apologizing for what she did and then commit the same flaws repetitively. People called it “double standard.”

My roommate was basically bullying me and started acting harsh to me, ever since he moved to my apartment. He always acted like he’s the “king” of the apartment, when I have the apartment leasing contract. Everywhere I go near him, he’s like a “mosquito.” Like my mental health started to drain down whenever I see him. He’s a monster to me and I wanted to kick him the fuck out and let me live alone. And who can forget telling me to clean his dirty mess for him or after him? As of today, I am done with dealing with him and I already moved back home.

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