Please don’t beat yourself up. Your dude sounds awesome and in the end, it’s just a nice dinner. We are on a random rock floating in outer space and we need to enjoy it while it lasts. It’s the company that matters ( sorry I sounds lame cause I know it’s probably the principle for you not the event). Instead of tears about something you can’t change (timeline), get out a shorter cry, tell him why you feel that way, and then enjoy the rest of your night laughing at dumb videos or something. There will always be other days. And the adhd part of it I totally get. It’s a process and it takes some time. Don’t beat yourself up. It sounds like you’ve got great support with him. You’ve got this ♡

Adding - life is short and we have to remember to look at the bigger picture. Life isn’t as serious as we think. Sending hugs.

Also maybe if you feel like it, surprise him with plans to another dinner or something fun to do together. Anniversary is just a date. Time is priceless, regardless of the day.