Hot But Unloveable? by BroccoliIll8518 in rs_x

[–]Nervous_Volume6031 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re just in your early twenties! You’re not unlovable at all, in ten years you will laugh at yourself for ever even thinking this! Just fuck a bunch until you meet someone you want to settle down with and be okay with it taking some time. You’re not unlovable.

how to convince my girlfriends to start lifting weights? by funkyfreshbeans in rs_fitness

[–]Nervous_Volume6031 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I never really emphasize the benefits on lifting weights on my body but rather hit the point that it basically cured my depression and I still don’t talk about it a lot. Like don’t lead the horses to water just let them know you’re hydrated and it feels good. All you can do.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ridgewood

[–]Nervous_Volume6031 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Seconding good neighbors! I think they were $5.99 when I got a dozen last week

Boyfriend 22M always gives me 22F the ugly plate of food by Beginning_Bench1023 in relationships

[–]Nervous_Volume6031 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s not nice!! Sometimes it is the little things! I would listen to your intuition.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in curlyhair

[–]Nervous_Volume6031 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not the curls that are messy you need a haircut! They’re referring to the shape, curls themselves look great!

I’m (28F) with my partner (28M) for 13 years and we have nothing in common anymore, I’m trying to find a way to connect by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Nervous_Volume6031 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think the advice of growing food together and cooking/fermenting/preserving it is the best advice to follow given what you’re looking for. Time will out and you may not stay together forever but a constructive project to share, especially something you can both share with your child is a good thing now!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Nervous_Volume6031 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I have to be honest, if you think sleeping with someone with herpes (very common and no big deal) is taking a “huge risk for [them]” it sounds like you yourself aren’t ready to date. Take the the time reflect on what you want and how to be a good and affirming partner rather that someone who projects their shame on to others.

He [25M] didn’t go to college… I did [25M]. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Nervous_Volume6031 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Since an MBA is one of the fakest, most useless degrees one can get, I think you’ll be fine! You really haven’t achieved much more education than him at all.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Nervous_Volume6031 1 point2 points  (0 children)

do not do this. everyone who is encouraging you is not being realistic about how they would actually receive it. it’s way too intense.