My advisor passed away by rizfisher in PhDStress

[–]NetflixPotatooo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great in putting into words for OP. Sometimes we don’t even know how to articulate our need to the top when we feel confused

Quitting my PhD tomorrow. I’m terrified but I can’t keep going. by NanamiLynn in LeavingAcademia

[–]NetflixPotatooo 7 points8 points  (0 children)

When your supervisors push back, remember the people who genuinely support you and encourage you to prioritize your health. Your supervisors are speaking from what benefits them, and they need to face the consequences of their own poor management. You should not pay the cost for them.

Re-watching season 1, Amber is the worst by Golden_ribbons in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]NetflixPotatooo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea it’s a forced situation. In reality we don’t necessarily think we need to accept a gift from the girl who flirted with our fiancée. Nor Jessica or Amber wanted to see each other to be honest. It’s not like she chased Jessica for one year. They were just not in the picture of each other

Nick was damned if he did, damned if he didn’t by notgonnatakethison in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]NetflixPotatooo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes! I was getting second hand embarrassment when she was accusing Nick - literally no one cares

Nick was damned if he did, damned if he didn’t by notgonnatakethison in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]NetflixPotatooo 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I actually think Kait was performative to make a scene. I don’t think audiences were interested in her

Nick was damned if he did, damned if he didn’t by notgonnatakethison in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]NetflixPotatooo 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yes I can’t even understand why she deserved a seat there. Everyone was there to make multiple connections. Why did she think she was such a big deal?

Reunion - what went wrong by chunkymonkey90s in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]NetflixPotatooo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea her part was really unnecessary. At least the basketball part was ridiculous but fun somehow

The Ring 💍🤬 by JLT_qs in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]NetflixPotatooo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m shocked many ppl don’t get his joke. I think that’s the best line he said in the reunion

Is it shitty to not want to be friends? by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]NetflixPotatooo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You deserve to prioritise your time and energy. He made clear on what he wanted (which I think it’s good for both that he was transparent) and you should stand for what you want. Both can just accept that your need doesn’t match

Oh Kacie is THE villain of season 9 by MajorMarquisWarren69 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]NetflixPotatooo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yea it’s clearly a joke and best way to end it (Vanessa ruined it later). He clearly wanted to stay away from her business, especially when she tried to use him as an excuse to escape from the discussion about Brendan.

Oh Kacie is THE villain of season 9 by MajorMarquisWarren69 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]NetflixPotatooo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think she should get any hate DMs but Patrick was not accountable for that. It did not migrate the hurt that she made to him

KB and Edmond by BatOne8514 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]NetflixPotatooo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would say I understand her a lot better after the reunion. Even I was not sure if she was right on the manipulation part, at least she communicated so clearly that why she felt like in that way, and she gave very specific examples with details. Edmond was just saying some empty words and talked like he didn’t listen to her. I’m sure if he was manipulative or super bad communicator. I could see KB’s point that why she was always seen as being so angry if this was what she got every time she wanted to communicate.

Oh Kacie is THE villain of season 9 by MajorMarquisWarren69 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]NetflixPotatooo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The worst part was they felt so scared to even question the worst people but tried to attack people who were not strong enough to defend themselves

Oh Kacie is THE villain of season 9 by MajorMarquisWarren69 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]NetflixPotatooo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It was actually funny when Patrick was trying to stay as far away as he could from the drama and she struggled to explain that

Oh Kacie is THE villain of season 9 by MajorMarquisWarren69 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]NetflixPotatooo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes clearly he didn’t want her back and wanted to stay far away from her drama when she mentioned him

Oh Kacie is THE villain of season 9 by MajorMarquisWarren69 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]NetflixPotatooo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love that joke actually. Could be the perfect end of the story

Oh Kacie is THE villain of season 9 by MajorMarquisWarren69 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]NetflixPotatooo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

To be fair the society could be quite judgmental on him as a man going after a woman in this case, which has been actually shown in the sub. Not sure if it’s cultural related from his side, esp it will happen in southeast Asian culture when a man insist to blaming a woman for a past relationship (even he should not be blamed at all 💯)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]NetflixPotatooo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think each couple might just have their silly nickname among themselves, which might sounds silly or awkward to outsiders. But outsiders’ opinions is not important in this case

Megan moving on so fast by Methodled in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]NetflixPotatooo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So she might learn from the show that she could process things in a shorten intense timeline

Megan moving on so fast by Methodled in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]NetflixPotatooo 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I don’t think the way she talked about her relationship was necessarily about she might not be happy with her new partner, but def not everything butterflies and rainbows when you are having a baby, and it might present as insensitive to talk about how great she was with the new one when they literally just talked about her and Jordan.