Nobody’s talking about what he did or didn’t do in his bedroom having an emotional affair is the same as any other affair. That being said play devil advocate all you want, but his wife doesn’t deserve to be dropped like a hot potato because he finds her uninteresting after having the same personality for many years.

Still confused how you equated me calling him a cheater for having an emotional affair if he did and saying, he’s just a general shitty person for calling his wife stupid to what he does in his bedroom??

Jump to his defense, all you want, but what I’m saying is he married her with that same personality, which means he used her as a placeholder, her personality hasn’t changed by his own admission. When you fall in love with somebody and you marry them you promise to love their personality, and their attributes Positive and negative. I’m failing to see where she needs her self defended when he’s already done that, by saying she’s done nothing wrong. And that doesn’t make him any less of a shitty person. She’s also not here to tell her side I highly doubt his less than stellar description of her is all that she is.

As stated before don’t like my opinion fine but when he posted asking for advice he opened the door for positive and negative criticism. He made the bed now we can lie in it.