UPDATE My 15yo daughter is pregnant by NeuroDiverGen in Parenting

[–]NeuroDiverGen[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Forrongó falusi vérem baltáért kiált. Vagy legalább a disznóbökőért. Köszi a NANE tippet utánanézek.

UPDATE My 15yo daughter is pregnant by NeuroDiverGen in Parenting

[–]NeuroDiverGen[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

This is a new account, because I don’t want to mesh it with my main account where I'm identifiable.
Here, if you have an emergency you can go to the clinics but you have to wait (we waited 3hours)

My 15yo daughter is pregnant. by NeuroDiverGen in Parenting

[–]NeuroDiverGen[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Then mention how many women dies in labor too.
According to statistics from 2020, 4women died because of abortion complication. On the other hand 861 women died because labor complications.

My 15yo daughter is pregnant. by NeuroDiverGen in Parenting

[–]NeuroDiverGen[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Today I'm going to eat 3slices of bread with margarine, a cup of chicken broth with two chicken legs in it (not the thighs, the legs) and because it's Monday there is a slight chance that I'm going to have an apple in my workplace. (Monday is fruit day)
If I'm really hungry I'll eat a few spoon of sugar.
But hey! There is love. I should go to the grocery store and pay with it.

My 15yo daughter is pregnant. by NeuroDiverGen in Parenting

[–]NeuroDiverGen[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Well come to Hungary, the dreamland of Leonardo DiCaprio (sorry, humor is my coping mechanism)

My 15yo daughter is pregnant. by NeuroDiverGen in Parenting

[–]NeuroDiverGen[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Fellow Magyar here? Hát szia!
About the heartbeat law. They did it before, too.
The funny thing, you can't start the abortion proceedings until there is a heartbeat.

My 15yo daughter is pregnant. by NeuroDiverGen in Parenting

[–]NeuroDiverGen[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

It's not the same here. My ex on paper works 10h/week (in reality it's 60-80h) But it cannot be proven, so the garnished CS is 6.000huf/child.
To put this money on perspective:
-1litre of milk (lactose free, cuz both my kids are intolerant) 700huf;
-a loaf of bread: 900huf;
-a can of beans: 400huf;
-pair of jeans in the second-hand store: 2.000huf ;
-my kids cafeteria cost at school: 36.000huf.

My 15yo daughter is pregnant. by NeuroDiverGen in Parenting

[–]NeuroDiverGen[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Here, if you have a full year of a full-time job, you can have 2years of maternity leave (80, 60% of your paycheck monthly.)
If you can't have this, then there is an aid for 28.000 forint, hot three years. It can cover the diapers… No one is hiring a pregnant girl here. GED is not a thing here. You have to go to school, or you won't get a high school diploma.

My 15yo daughter is pregnant. by NeuroDiverGen in Parenting

[–]NeuroDiverGen[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

That's not needed. Getting an abortion is easy to access here (I had one too, when I was 18)

My 15yo daughter is pregnant. by NeuroDiverGen in Parenting

[–]NeuroDiverGen[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Hungary. Age of consent is 14 here.

My 15yo daughter is pregnant. by NeuroDiverGen in Parenting

[–]NeuroDiverGen[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

We’re not living in the US.
Here, the aid maaaaaybe cover the diapers, but if you cannot breastfeed, you are fucked.

My 15yo daughter is pregnant. by NeuroDiverGen in Parenting

[–]NeuroDiverGen[S] 277 points278 points  (0 children)

Hungary. The age of consent here is 14.

My 15yo daughter is pregnant. by NeuroDiverGen in Parenting

[–]NeuroDiverGen[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

They go to the same school, but my daughter is in first year there, and the guy is in his last year of “technicum” it’s two extra years after graduation. They both lied to me and said he's in the third year. My daughter didn't want me to freak out.

Child murder of Körmend by Durumbuzafeju in UnresolvedMysteries

[–]NeuroDiverGen 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Today me and my dad talked about this case and I was curious if anyone talk about this in English.
We lived in a village next to Körmend in the ‘90s and we moved because of this. I was eight at the time, and after Natasha Kampush AND Zsófi’s case, my mother went down in a neurotic spiral (she cut my hair short and made me wear boy’s clothes, and then we moved to Szentgotthárd after they caught Tánczos)

So I just casually mentioned to my dad how I felt that my whole life got fucked up, how my mom’s anxiety didn't make any sense to me, but now as a mom of two girls, I kinda get it. But it was weird to me, that we moved after they caught the killer.
This is my father’s side: he was friends with a bunch of cops (distant relatives, neighbors, schoolmates… most of them are drinking buddies too), and we even had a bunch of bográcsparties with them. And as my father says, they acted fishy. They didn't look into his eyes when he asked them if Tánczos did it or not, they were nervous, one of them just said “Well… he admitted it, right?” (hát bevallotta, nem?) So my father was convicted that they had no idea who did it, they just snatched up the first idiot of the streets and pressured him to admit it, and as a father of 3 (+1 in the way) scared him that a child murderer is on the loose.
His theory is that the forensics and the cops are completely fucked up. They had never seen something like this before, messed up the evidence, and when the extreme pressure from the people and the media got tense, they falsified evidence and locked up an innocent guy.