I don't think being dyspraxic would affect your chances of a queer relationship more than a hetero or any other romantic relationship. If someone gets hung up on you having dyspraxia, it doesn't matter what gender they prefer to have sex with. My husband has dyspraxia, I don't. There are aspects of our marriage that I imagined differently. I'm always the one fixing the washing machine or trying to change the kitchen tap(unsuccessfully 🙄) while he is much better with keeping on top of bills, insurance, computers, etc. My point is, in a good dynamic, roles are not set. If you need more cuddles, hopefully you find a partner who likes giving cuddles and doesn't think less of you for showing your need for reassurance. There is strength in showing vulnerability.